Thanks Lollipop - she is making me very tired!!!!
The Magician - yes that was very, very , very weird. but the ppl are kinds weird. so rich we dont know what to do with money. i can tell you a couple of stories, but i wont.
the girls are finally back to normal - amandalynn's chest is still a bit funny - but its never going to be brilliant. Lorelai is back to her old happy, busy self.
now i have to ask something and do you guys think it makes me a bad mom? the girls at my work freaked but now im confused.
when Amandalynn was little and she had all she needed and i could do nothing, she needed nothing except wanting to be in my arms (she was already mobile at that stage) i would just put her in her cot and do what i need to do. yes she would scream but that was the only way being a single mom and all. Lorelai is a different story, when she gets tired she is moody her gran and dad rocks her to sleep at night and then put her in the cot. but she is wakes up @ 2 or 3 she wants to be rocked and it does not work for me. before she was sick she never wanted it, but she is not sick no more. so on Tuesday afternoon i tried rocking her to sleep, lying wiht her, but she did not want to go to sleep, but she was over tired. so i just put her in the cot and she screamed for about 30min and went to sleep. late afternoon i did it again and it took only 10min. th night it took her 5min to fall asleep. it is important to me that she knows how to sooth herself, but dad doesnt agree
so without making me feel like horrible mom - would any of you ever do it?