January 2010 mommies

ahh rocco ((hugs))

I'll start writing the letter today... it might be a whole book.... and lots of wet blobs on the paper..

i do feel better now that i've spoken to u all.
thx for always listening

Rocco this is really a tough one. I agree to talk to him and tell him how you feel! And in the mean time keep your chin up cause things always look better tomorrow!

Rocco that is an impossible situation, maybe the letter is not such a bad idea?

Maybe a letter is a good idea then he cant start a fight before he has finished reading the whole letter! Maybe you guys can both agree on a deadline for him to set up his business and if he doesn't meet that deadline he has to start looking @ getting a job.

I find when you dont have a deadline you dont really focus! And he already missed the Jan 2010 Deadline.

i dont know how to approach the whole situation.. when he started planning this new thing the arrangement was that he gets it going by Jan 2010 before baby is born.. well that didnt happen.. and its not going to any time soon... it does require a lot of time to set it all up.
maybe i should write him a letter.. lately all our conversations end up in fights! and then we go to bed not talking to each other....

Rocco, Sounds like a tough situation. Maybe you should just sit down and talk to him nicely! Can't he find a job in the meantime and work on starting something different @ Night? That way he can still bring in a income? And you work until he is settled in his job?