file Pregnancy after D&C

14 years 8 months ago #218733 by Joybaby
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Hi ladies

Bronz waiting to hear from you! Did AF arrive?
Mine is still MIA but I know I'm not pg so enjoyed me a glass of red.
I needed it, K is not sleeping well at all.
Last night she was still wide awake at 9:30pm and eventually put her in the car and went for a drive. She was definitely tired cos she fell asleep within 10 minutes of driving.
Same thing seems to be happening tonight. DH is trying to get her down but she works herself into such a state that her eyes are totally swollen from the crying and she gets red bruises under them too. She is so upset that she's squeaking from lack of oxygen.
With everything else going on, and the strain between DH & myself, this is really just a bit much for me to handle now.
If she was sleeping through we could manage but the night before last she was awake from 11pm till 3am too.
I was so tired after last night that I slept from 1pm till 4:30pm today and I still feel exhausted.
Really wish I knew what to do. I thought by this age sleep would be much easier.

Lucy big hugs. Our emotions do get the better of us, and although easier after we've had a baby doesnt take away the memories or the pain we experienced.
Cant believe its been 2years already!
Sorry to hear that things are tough between you and DH. Is it since Tessa's arrival or other things? Things are so tense with us right now when we need each other the most but I feel we are so far apart :(

Mom2B are you in CPT? This weather has been totally awful! The cloudcover helps but still very hectic. I hate cooking or cleaning in this heat! Hopefully we'll have some relief this weekend.

I spoke with Klk yesterday. Her op went well but she was very sore and tired. She'll see doc in 2 weeks time.

First angel resting 25/06/2009 stayed with us a short 7 weeks but we still miss you.

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14 years 8 months ago #218722 by LUCY W
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Joybaby - FX. I have to say you are one strong lady and Kaylee is very lucky to have you as her Mommy.

Debbie, Bronz, Klk - who else is TTC? Well I am thinking of you ladies.

Belaine - Good luck for sat, it will be great for DH to get a peek too.

Mom2B - I think it is about time we got a belly pic!! Your LO is growing nicely and I'm so glad the MS has passed

Angi - How you holding up in this heat? How about a belly pic from you too?

Dinky - where you fairy?

Afm - It was 2 years this week since my MC and I have to be honest that is was somehow a little more difficult than 1 year. Not sure if it was cos I was preggy last year. But I actually think it did me some good to be with the memory for a bit and honour my sleeping angel. Strange how unexpected emotions can be !! Feeling better now though.
DH and I have also decided to go for counselling. We are just not on the same page any more and hopefully this will help us get there.
Tessy continues to be precious!! I need to leave her next week for 5 nights, eeeeeek, it is our conference. I am going to be in Irene. Unfortunately I won't have transport otherwise it would have been so nice to meet some you gautengers!

Chat soon xx

MC in Jan 2010 (7wks)
TTCing for 1st Baba since June 2009
BFP !! EDD 4 April 2011
Tessa Amelie born 25 March 2011 via c sec in Ballito
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14 years 8 months ago #218719 by Mom2B-July
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Belaine glad Dr says all is good and just take it easy ok!! As for the MS I know it sucks but at least you know all is well with bean/s and it will hopefully pass :)

Joybaby any sign of the dreaded witch?? When we tried the first time I was also skeptical that we had caught the egg but surprisingly we had so fingers crossed for you and if it has not happened then as you say it is not meant to be right now with all you are going through with Kaylee xxxx Sounds like you have some hectic weeks ahead of you and hope you have lots of support from friends and family please keep us informed of Kaylee's surgery and recovery we will all be praying for her xxxx

Deb and Bronz it must almost be time for you to POAS fingers crossed for you both!!

AFM: today we finally have an overcast day and although it is still muggy it is better than the 35 degree heat wave we have had the whole week!! Definitely over the MS have not had for almost 12 days woohoo!! Tummy growing nicely and have bought myself some maternity clothes finally!

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14 years 8 months ago #218688 by Joybaby
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Hello everyone!

Belaine shame man about the MS! I struggled most with it between 10 - 12 weeks.
Glad to hear everything is looking good and wow on the twins possibility!
Please let us know as soon as possible what the outcome is of Saturday's scan!

Angi hope you are getting lots of rest now, these hot weeks are hard!

M2B so glad all is looking good with baba! Such exciting news :)

Deb & Bronz hope you're surviving your 2WW!

Lucy, Klk, Chanz, Esmari, all the golden oldies - how are you all doing?

At the end of my 2WW! AF is due tomorrow if my body is sticking to its recent 28day cycle. We BD'd a fair amount over O time but dont think we caught the egg. Took a test today and BFN. But it's okay, its only our first month and I think we may put it on hold anyway as Kaylee is going for her 3rd heart surgery in the coming weeks. We are just waiting for the Dr to phone us back with a date. Hopefully we'll know by tomorrow. But it means we'll be in hospital for a week, with a 6w recovery time and a lot of lack of sleep and stress to come, as my work contract also ended last week and I wont be able to start work until mid feb / march at this stage.

Could do with a holiday!!!

First angel resting 25/06/2009 stayed with us a short 7 weeks but we still miss you.

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14 years 8 months ago #218653 by belaine
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Hi there

MS has hit a whole new level!!! Went to dr after I saw some spotting he is so happy and smiling and said everything look much better that the last time and even suspecting twins going on saturday that we can do another scan when dh is with and to make sure everything is ok. Then we will go at the end of the month to see the heartbeat/s

every one at work very happy for me!!

I hope you all have a wonderful day!!

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14 years 8 months ago #218446 by belaine
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Hi my friends

Had a very relaxing weekend slept most of the time.. sjoe I was tired!! Im still tired cant keep my eyes open.

Sue how are you and your little boy doing?
Lucy I love the pics she is adorable.
Chan and klk how are you doing?
Dinky how are you feeling? yippee you have reached the 12w cant wait to reach mine.
Angi so close yet so far has a whole new meaning :)
Bels how are you doing you also very close to that 12w.
Debbie are you in the 2ww? fx I really pray that when I go for my scan that we celebrate your bfp.
Esmarie good luck with arranging the party!!

Hope i didnt miss any one.

Elna (friend at word) said they have decided to get married first thinking of April I think she is going to be a lovely bride, and then ttc soon after. Looks like she is coping well with the d&c.

Have a wonderful day!!

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14 years 9 months ago #218374 by Angi*
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M2B lovely scan pics, so glad the check up went well...

Belaine hugs hun, may everything be fine with your sticky bean...

Debs did you enjoy ur trip, so jealous hun...

AFM: no news just counting down the days till Izelle makes her arrival in the world...

2 precious angels in heaven...we think and miss you everyday
BFP! EDD 11 March 2012
Thank you Lord for trusting us with your special angel
Surprised us with her presence 23 Feb 2012
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