Soweto Ladies

Shame man, but plz don't exclude him if he still refuses to give you the money end of July rather use yours and when the baby is born and he's all set to spend, take that money and use it for something else.

Thanx, will check them. yes I think its a good buy ( for hospital stay) with all the heavy bleeding. I so wish i knew about them with my first (I bled a lot).

Gals i only bought the disposable panties for my hospital stay. Otherwise i`ll be sticking to my full pantiesuntil i get better.

Ntoko, good idea, start with your bag, think i'll do the same

I had decided to go to Arkermans & laybye clothes for LO & then wait for the BS & see what i get. That way if i get what i had laybyed I can ask to change that to something else & @least i know i've bought.

Cubes, you can also get the panties @ dischem - but do you think its a good buy? Maybe it is for the hospital stay

Ntoko, like Cubes say, men will b men - If you don't push then you will be left behind - to them worrying about something they haven't seen is least of their problems.
Like with my Hubby, he would complain when we @ a shop & my daughter ask for a sweet or something - he says she eats too many sweets but as soon as you step put of the shop & go to the Liquor store, he doesn't look @ the price & just takes what he feels like having with no thought - so i say you learn to be selfish in a nice way

Cubes - i got disposable panties at Ackermans baby, you can also get them at Baby City & Baby Boom. The Carriwell range.

Men can be difficult sometimes. He says yena "ukholwa ngokubona" So he has to see the baby for him to start believing. As if im gonna wait for that. I`ll ask for the money end of July so that i can buy things, if he still insist then i use my money and never ever include him.

where did you get disposable panties?

Hhayi, man will b man, he is the one postponing, on the other hand he wants you to pretend you not having any shower and buy everthing, when will be the right time to buy everything or maybe when you 8+ months. Imagine waddling to different malls tryng to find everthing needed at that later stage. you right it should b his responsibility but do you trust him.
I did that with my first but DH bought 6-12, 18-24 (size) and i was really bored.

I have decided to start with my hospital bag, then baby bag then Bd will have the responsibility of buying for the rest of baby things, cause he keeps on stopping me everytime asking me to wait He also said we should pretend im not getting any shower and buy everything i will need. This is what i bought for my hospital bag:

Maternity pads
Maternity bras 2
6 disposable panties
Nipple cream
Pj`s
Still need to get a gown + 2 towels