Soweto Ladies

@wild@heart

Shame man, just leave things as they are! It wont help asking your mom too.

Gals can i ask you a question. So say i decide to give lo BD`s mom`s name (Phumi) which i really like. Wouldn`t she give me problems after birth like amadlozi/ancestors wanting her or giving her any problems? You know traditional things mos?

Wildcat2, i've arranged Baby Showers so many times & i know what i should expect.

They will Strip me naked, down to my Bra & panty. they will put a towel (like a nappy) and make me do funny things. They'll put a carrot attached to two potatoes and hang it right there infront Oh Lord, i just wanted to be prepared.
Gues you are right, i should just let it be & have fun Its my turn now

eish,you spoiled the whole thing now,just keep quite,dont even ask ur mom,let them suprise you,they r really putting soo much effort into doing this,dont spoil it for them,sshhhhhhhh!!!!!!

Ladies,well i feel stupid/sad...
Story:
On Sunday i overheard hubby talking to a close cousin of mine & i acted as if i didn't hear anything. They were talking about a Baby Shower for me & it was a secrect. On Monday, when Hubby left for work @ 19:15 our helper asked me about umsebenzi on the 3rd of July concerning the baby (i think she was confused what hubby was telling her so she wanted clarity from me)& being me I told her i know nothing about that - now i had the date - yippe yippe
Now i had to let Hubby know that on that day i have a ladies club am attending so i won't be available - lucky i did that without him realising that i knew something.

Izolo, Hubby being him & not being able to keep a secret tells me that they are planning a shower for me on the 24th of July & he wasn't going to tell me anything more.
This morning, i phoned my mother & told her that i know now that Hubby & cousin are planning a shower & the date - bear in mind that me & my moms are very close, i tell her everything.
Now Hubby calls me & ask me why did i tell moms about the Shower - he wasn't angry or anything but am now feeling stupid He says he won't tell me anything from now concerning the Shower including the date, does this mean they are changing the date What have i done
Advise Pls Mantombazana - must i call my moms & ask her or should i just leave it?

Hi beatiful angels i hope you are all fine

i have'nt been here in a while and i will be away again for three weeks but everything is fine with me i missed our conversation gals

take care

I know ladies,i am so lucky to have her as a boss,she is soo shweet and understanding,she even said i dont have to fill in any leave forms when i go to the doc,i must save my days she is the best,now the doc told me hore i no longer have to come in every four weeks,it is now every two weeks,every two weeks,oh my word,kgole ke mo ke tswang,kgaufi ke mo ke yang,that i can now blive

Well Ntoko,my granny also said she will get me a cloth to wrap around my tummy,i guess it is a must hey,to keep lo all warm and healthy.

I love my job and my boss is awesome,but i just hate this company,i wish i could leave,and mayb take my boss with this morning on my way to work,i bought,magwinya and white liver,yummy,ate that on my way to work,jst finishing them now,and lo is soo excited.

WELCOME BACK wildcat2!

And here we thought something was wrong with you Glad you are ok with your nunu. I also have to pay R170 when booking my bed but no one has told me this, just this other lady warned me. So now i know that i need some cash for booking a bed

Shame your gran means well. Phela this mama at the hospital was saying i need to wrap something around my waist all the time regardless of how much im wearing underneath

You have a very nice boss there, pls pass her to me. I work with very horrible people. They are now starting to complain about my appointments Imagine, just a few hours off work.

wild@heart - i also wish i can find something else so that i dont have to come back here :angry: We haven`t discussed ML but i know there will be some funny stories :(