Soweto Ladies

Ladies, pls enjoy your weekend

Ntoko, don't stress too much, i always say what i want done will be done as a mother & what MIL or BD says will be debated first

I am definetly going pass Clicks in Eastgate, i will make sure i don't leave any stock

Thanks gals - Sizobona ngabo when they come.

Kganya - with my sisters when their babies were born they were not in speaking terms/broke up with the boyfriends. So no families came.

Cubes - you see. Thats what i dont like Most people do that. thats why they never pay molato before the baby is born cause they want to do the checks. Mnxm. If it was me they will only see that baby once and never again The cheek!

Yes to those who are going to Clicks after work, leave some for us hle! Pls tell us on monday what you got

ijoo cubes,that is not on,it is said in most families if ur not married and have a baby,there will always be a doubt at the back of their minds(bd's family)hore ngwana ke wa bona,so rakgadi has to come and inspect the baby,my rakgadi told me they did that with me looking back,wtf were they thinking,hore ke ngwana wa ko next door.Ladies looks like most of you are going to Clicks after work,le ska fetsa dintho phela le re siele rona re yang kaosane hle!!!

Cubes, am sure i would have asked them to leave immediatly. Unfortunately with my First, she looked exactly like her father, light in color (am dark). So couldn't do that.

Cubes, what did they do after they had checked the LO?

Talking of acknowledgements. with my first LO the inlaws came to see him. guess what they checked everything from top to bottom. I'm talking nose, mouth, ears, birthmarks, toes, nails ...etc just to make sure it was theirs (they never mention that but it was clear).
I was so pissed off.

Ntoko, Kganya is right. BD's family come after the baby is born, bringin with gift for the LO. It really doesn't matter how old the LO is. If they agreed that LO is their baby then they can come any time even if the baby is a two weeks old.

You must never blame yourself for the Love that you give your LO. If BD wants to go with LO, why not, you trust him don't you?
You trust that he would never hurt your LO intesionaly.. let your LO experience each side of the family, so you won't get blamed for that

I also went to clicks, found nothing and ended up buying few chocolate slps and pockts of swts
hhayi this is not on. So after work, its Centurion for me.

Ntoko i think they should come and acknowledge the baby after 1 month.