THX all. OK well Lesley (midwife) delivered Kayla at Garden City Active Birth Unit in the birth bath - was awesome. 2nd birth - we went to Linkwood and Megan was delivered by Marinda (Lesley was on leave)
Yesterday I called Lesley again (prefer her) but she's not really practicing anymore but she's agreed to help me with a home birth (must just check that she's still registered etc. for medical aid to pay).
With Kayla I had a scan at 11 weeks, 20 weeks and my 3D scan at hospital. Never saw a gynae other than that. With Megan, I was with Dr. Nagar (as midwives had legal problems with Garden City) until about 32 weeks when he told me I won't be able to have a natural birth, so I went back to the midwives.
JeanineK - who is your midwife?

Cath - when I had Megan, I put my make up on during contractions which was like 2 minutes apart. I also had this pic in my head of me all beautiful in the bath, had scented scanted etc., but flip, then I threw the candles out as they were making me nauseous, the bath didn't do it for me, my hair was tied (i wanted it loose) and Megan arrived on the bed instead of in the bath!