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14 years 10 months ago #214663 by Justine
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Mienkie, I only had one MC so can only guess at how scared/uncertain you must feel.
You say you've got a daughter so take hope in that... clearly your body does know how to do this and can follow through on that first glimmer of life.
If it were me, I'd be doing the blood test/regular scan thing (though scan only from 7/8 weeks, just in case you've your dates wrong)... but thats because Im better at handling bad news than uncertainty.
Good luck, and I really really hope that this is the beginning of a little sibling for your girl. :)
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14 years 10 months ago #214608 by Lia
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Mienkie, I totally understand !! I had two MC's and when I started with the third threatened MC, I told my husband I am never doing it again.....but she pulled through and is a beautiful 7 month old baby girl.

I cannot imagine what it must be like to have more MC's. I think you are entitled to feel a little upset, but do so and pic yourself up and be positive. Your baby needs you to be positive. I learned to pray during my pregnancy, each time I would worry and stress, I would say a little prayer, which helped me a lot.

Go for the bloodtest and speak to your doctor. Maybe go every second week for a scan, that is what I did and it helped as well. Oh and go to the shops and look at all those tiny baby clothes and dream of the day your baby gets to wear them.

I truly hope this is your little miracle baby !! Good luck mommy !!

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MC Dec \'08 & Mrch \'09,
HPT - 19/07/2010 - BFP !!
L gebore op 07/04/2011
Alle eer aan God !!
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14 years 10 months ago #214605 by Strik*kie

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14 years 10 months ago #214604 by Mienkie
Replied by Mienkie on topic Re: JUST FEELING NUMB...
oh and i'm def going to get the test done lunchtime. i hope to get the results today still.

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14 years 10 months ago #214603 by Strik*kie
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Mienkie, i am so sorry about all you had to go through.

I would also suggest taking bloods and and see. I can understand why you feel like you do, but keep faith. (((hugs))))

I hope this one is a sticky baba.
Congrats.

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14 years 10 months ago #214602 by Mienkie
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thanks ladies. need the positivity cos i've got none left.

i'm about 3 days late. that's why i took the test and also i was feeling really ill last week - nauseas, headaches...

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14 years 10 months ago - 14 years 10 months ago #214599 by MomToChloe
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Mienkie, im so sorry you feeling this way... When one gets a +HPT one would be happy and excited...

I say get a bloodtest done and see how far you are and take it from there.. How late are you?

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