TRYING FOR 2015 BABY

hi P4M1- i dont have much to share regarding diet, as i personally sturggle with dieting. I just eat whatever i can find, and try and excersice instead. so maybe other ladies will be able to shed some light

I came accross this link ladies, i hope it helps. I was going to load up on pineapples because i thoguht i need them before ovulation, sounds like they are hostile to sperm and are best after ovulation..DR google dearest! we'd be lost without you..LOL

www.parenting.com/article/what-eat-conceive

Hi there ladies
Does anyone have some advice or a specific diet I can follow please? I desperately need to loose some weight. I currently drink 2L water and more per day, I use portion control and try to eat healthy but I don't always succeed. Exercise is one of my main problems as I really don't get time for it, I finish work at 5pm wait for DF till 6pm (sometimes later) (we only have 1 car), then we go to the shops buy what is needed (7pm) drive to home (on a farm outside of town), When we get home I have to feed 7 fur kids, prepare food (8pm), eat, water the garden, shower, prepare everything for next day, wash the dishes (9pm)
Go to bed at 10 or 11pm
I don't always get time even to do the dishes so I leave it for the next day.
So as you can see I have a very tight schedule I would love to go for walks but I don't know where to fit them in.
Anyways so I was just wondering if anyone has a diet I can follow pretty please

@Morgan That is awesome, as I mentioned in previous posts, I had exactly the same treatment, we were lucky to have gotten 3 beautiful eggs, we were nervous for 3 babies, would have been ecstatic if two took, but we ended with 1 and is VERY VERY VERY happy as it is better than none. Good Luck for tomorrow, it is painless (slight feeling of poking) and very exciting. FX

@P4M1 doing good, gave the news to the family the weekend.. they were all very happy, but in the same breath asked when the wedding is, so I am now wedding planning. Reality has not yet kicked in...still no symptoms etc, going for my 8 week scan on the 10th and the fetal assessment on two weeks later!

Your womb will not be empty forever, just keep faith, once you are there you will know the reason why it took so long, remember special things don't happen over night! It always takes time to create something beautiful, there are no short cuts! Only faith, hope and patients!

@HoopVirDieBeste
Thank you dear! I'm just over emotional, it comes and goes, its the same when I see a lady in the shopping centre with her gorgeous baby bump and I have this empty womb that I carry around
Anyways, how are you doing?

Good morning lovely ladies!!

WOW, WOW, WOW!!!!!!

@ Sino - I agree with the others and the doctor. Give it a few months so that all the contraceptives can work out of your system. Then it's BFP!

@ Jaybee - I understand your frustration and heartache. You said that you have a 28 - 30 day cycle, right? I'd say give it another 4 days. Then, if no AF, HPT to get BFP! I'm sure the nausea is a good sign because you don't normally have nausea with AF, right? FX that it is early pregnancy symptoms!

@ lillyr - OPK's have NEVER been accurate with me so I don't trust them AT ALL. I agree, BD like there's no tomorrow! I believe in being prepared so, have the swimmers ready and waiting for the egg!

@ P4M1 - I COMPLETELY understand those feelings. Have the same situation at work with a colleague who 'brags' about how easy it was for her kids to get pregnant. I feel like 'Yeah, good for you but I don't need to know how freaking easy it was. Seriously.' You are NOT a FAILURE! Don't ever think that!

AFM - Hmmmm..... hahahaha!! Feeling so good and positive about this WHOLE situation! Had a slight hiccup just now when I called to confirm everything and they said that our IUI has been moved. I thought WTF?! I called and asked what is going on because come hell or high water MY IUI IS TAKING PLACE TOMORROW!

They then said that there was a double booking and that we must just please come an hour later. I then took a deep breath and said, 'No probs.' It isn't a problem but don't freaking tell me that it's been moved and then not tell me why or when!

OK, gynae looked yesterday and immediately said 'Ooo, two nice big eggs. Definitely looks like there will be twins. Are you sure you want to continue?' hubby and I looked at each other and said 'Yes.'

She then joked and said 'I'm only asking because I'm not taking one.' But ja, got the trigger shot then, I'm going to ovulate tomorrow morning at 4. No BDing for us now. Hubby's swimmers have to be collected and taken to Pathcare at 8 tomorrow morning, then they'll be washed and at 10:30 it's IUI time. Swimmers will be inserted directly into the womb via a long, plastic pipe as close to fallopian tube opening as possible so that they don't have so far to swim.

They will then meet the eggs, fertilize them and then, BFP! So I sincerely hope and pray. When the twins are here, I don't think hubby and I will have any more kids. Ah, maybe. It depends. I'd love to have 4 kids. 2 boys and 2 girls but at this stage, ANY kids will do!

Ladies, got so much work to catch up on from yesterday's afternoon off and tomorrow's full day off. Lots of love and baby dust to all.

xx

@P4M1 - don't ever feel like a failure! God will provide what you need and when the time is right. Keep your faith and keep on praying for your miracle, He will provide! He always does! *BIG HUG*