Hi everyone!
I've read many or most of your posts and so wish I could somehow give each and every one of you BFP's! Will pray with you for your babies!
I feel so crap typing this, I think it will sound somewhat vain, if thats the right word - but I'm so desperate for some opinions.
I'm overweight - eating right and getting active now so am losing some weight. But our plan has been to TTC from end of November, but after reading here and learning so much from all of you without you guys even knowing how many of us you educate

I realised I'll ovulate from much earlier in November than we were planning (not that a week of 2 for weight loss is going to be a big gap). But now its getting real, a bit scary.
Obviously like all, I hope to see a bfp quick - but I'm so annoyed with my weight... I want to look pregnant, not fat and enjoy everything about it, even the bad days. Did anyone else have second thoughts about weight before you started trying?
And then naturally on the other side - I also don't feel like I want to postpone ttc, in case we struggle.
So trying just accept being overweight, but keep up with healthy eating & exercise and if we then do conceive now - take everything as it comes.
Would appreciate any stories or feelings you had right at the beginning before you started trying