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9 years 11 months ago #275167 by Pixie143
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Hi Ladies,

@Chanti and Joost sorry to hear about the BFN must be heart sore.

AFM: Dr appointment went well today, no cysts on my ovaries and he also said my uterus is nice and clear, just still have the Nabothian cyst but nothing to be concerned about, he has suggested that i go for blood tests, i will be doing that in a week's time, he says that when you go in the ovulating period it can give wrong results. Mentioned that i must also go have my Fallopian tubes checked (Im not on medical aid have to pay cash) he mentioned that i can do a xray for that test will be cheaper that way.

any suggestion to who i can go to i am on the east rand then he also said that before i go through all the crazy tests ect my DP must go check himself first aswell. who can i phone where do i start with regards to the men to be tested?
Advise will be greatly appreciated.
So we have decided we will do which ever one is cheaper between the two first.
I am on CD15 today been BD every second day except for Thursday last week.

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9 years 11 months ago #275165 by joo~ste
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Sammy
Oe...wowie!! A new house!! I would love to do that one day - design and build our own. Enjoy!! What a nice weekend to look forward to. AND....would it not be even more wonderful if you could get that BFP next week!!!!

Liza
That is the thing about IVF - one realise that it is really not in our hands. Someone Up there gives life and we need to do our best ....but He has the final say. I have heard of so many natural BFP's after IVF. (My 2nd born was a natural BFP when our IVF miracle was just 9 months old - so TRUST in the process!! - It will happen). GL with the "empty-nest syndrome"
:unsure:

AFM
On CD1......starting Femara on Sunday.....trigger shot on the 7th.....beta test on the 23 of December. We will keep on trying and trusting in the knowing that our blessing is on the way. :woohoo:

Me:40/DH:39
TTC#1 =3yr2m
TTC#2 =3m
TTC#3 =2yr

Journey started: May 2009 (Gr II Endo)
Total cycles TTC: 64
Clomid/Femara/Inject cycles: 20
IUI: 2
IVF: 1
Lap/Hyst: 4
Miomect: 1
Polipect: 1
D&E: 2
Missed MC: 2
Chem Pg: 4

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9 years 11 months ago #275164 by Sammy84
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Good morning ladies

Firstly, @ Chanti & Jooste, my heart is broken for the both of you! I wish there was something any of us could say or do to take just a little of your disappointment and hurt away! Sending you both loads of love and will keep you in my prayers!

@ all the other ladies, Always just remember to be kind to yourselves!

AFM.... After 2.5 years of planning to build our house, changing designs and all the nightmares that go with it all. Our house was handed over to us this morning... I am SO super excited and just want the next 2 hours to fly by so I can go help my DH move all our stuff! Otherwise, it's CD 18 today.... 4dpiui.... and yeah, not much to say about it at this point! I am STILL very positive and I truly believe that this cycle is going to give us our rainbow.... Life is just SO hectic, between my normal job, then doing my DH books on the side, getting our 13 year old through exams and completing the house and moving now, the days are simply passing me by!

Best of luck to everyone who is attempting the shops today with this Black Friday today! Stay safe and please each do one little thing to spoil yourselves this weekend, simply because each and everyone of you deserve it!

Many blessings xxx

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9 years 11 months ago #275163 by LizaGrobler
Replied by LizaGrobler on topic Trying for a 2017 Baby
Morning Lovely ladies!

So glad it's Friday!

@ Jooste sorry for the BFN. Let's pray for that little Christmas miracle!

@ Chanty you know how i feel about your results xxx Lots of hugs!

@ Nicole i'm glad your experience with the specialist was good! It makes this journey so much easier!

@ Angel i know that 3 months seems like an eternity! Take this time to plan you next move and get your body ready for you miracle!

Really hope that i didn't miss anybody!! :huh:

AFM just chilling through the cycle. CD12 for me today, so the BD marathon started last night. After not being able to BD for almost 4 weeks in the IVF cycle Hubby is more than willing to trying for a natural BFP! :laugh:

After the failed IVF my mind set totally changed re TTC. I'm just not obsessing about it anymore. If it happens it happens. Should we not get a natural BFP by mid 2017 then we'll use the frozen Embryo's.

So much going on in my life know that don't have time to focus on this journey. My LO is going on a Tour for a week and their flying on Monday! :( Only to return on Friday. This will be the first time that he leaves home for so long. It's going to be torture! :cry: I have a few things that i still need to buy for him so i need to get to the mall today, and it's madness because of this Black Friday thing ... :ohmy:

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend! Mine starts in 45min!

TTC since Jan 2014 to now
April 2015 - July 2015 Fertomid "Unsuccessful"
August 2015 - Oct 2015 Using Concieve Plus

Taking a break!!

April 2016 -Back on the TTC wagon

July 2016 ovulated 46.8
Oct 2016 Round 1 IVF - Unsuccessful

FET 2017 - 4 Frozen Embryo's

July 2017 - 1st FET Cycle

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9 years 11 months ago - 9 years 11 months ago #275160 by joo~ste
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Chanti
My heart aches for you. I am really sorry. Especially this time of the year - not great to get news like that. Keep your head up. The fact that we are waiting longer than others to become parents- does not mean that we will not be blessed. Believe that.

AFM
Took a digital this morning. BFN - :cry:
CD27 today ....meeting with the FS on Tuesday to go onto injectables for December and TI. We will do that for 1 or 2 more cycles before moving onto IVF. Just do not feel ready just yet to jump onto the IVF wagon again. It is such a rollercoaster ride-

Me:40/DH:39
TTC#1 =3yr2m
TTC#2 =3m
TTC#3 =2yr

Journey started: May 2009 (Gr II Endo)
Total cycles TTC: 64
Clomid/Femara/Inject cycles: 20
IUI: 2
IVF: 1
Lap/Hyst: 4
Miomect: 1
Polipect: 1
D&E: 2
Missed MC: 2
Chem Pg: 4

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9 years 11 months ago #275152 by mesh1401
Replied by mesh1401 on topic Re:Trying for a 2017 Baby
Chanti, I'm so sorry about your negative. I understand your disappointment and heartbreak. pls be strong. I will keep you in my prayer

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9 years 11 months ago #275149 by Pinky89
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Oh No Chanti, my heart breaks for you and all the ladies who got negatives with their first IVF's.
You are all in our prayers.

Me:33
Hubby:38
Jan 2017 6wk MC,ectopic, lost one tube
April 2017 BFP, Now almost 6yrs old
July 2023 BFP

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