TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Taryn, I use pre-seed during the fertile days... Sometimes I insert, sometimes we use it like a normal lube.

Meags, I can understand his apprehension about therapy. To tell u the truth I was also a bit scared of going for counselling at first coz I was worried I'd be judged. If u can get him to just 1 session, I'm sure all his apprehension and misconceptions tht therapy is only for older or couples expriencing serious trouble will melt away. But then again, maybe u have given him a wake up call and his reformed behaviour will mean tht therapy will be unnecessary.

Capi, sorry, I didn't see ur advice on the last pg till now coz I was posting at the same time and my post put me on a new pg. The university requires tht u take out medical aid - so we will have cover, but I'm not sure what type exactly. It wld get me off ttc for a long time as we wld only leave next year august and return in june 2012. I'll still be under 30 but dh older. Thing is, at this stage we want to have a few kids (might change my mind once I actually go thru childbirth) so I might end up still ttc after 33, which I'd like to avoid... Also, we're pretty broody. At this stage dh still wants to try. I think I'd prob stop actively trying but maybe not actively preventing and just leave it up to God. Hopefully he won't give us anything we can't handle and if we're meant to take a kid with to Boston, we will

Esmari, Im happy that youre all sorted out. But Im sure it was a hard decision to make to put ttc on hold for now. I can feel how badly you want another baba. I hope things work out for you guys! *hugs*

Meemo, welcome (back) I really hope the progesterone does the trick this month!! Will say an extra long prayer for you. FX!! What is your testing date?

Shame Meags, youre really at your end Some people really dread going to a therapist Maybe that was enough of a shock to him that he kicks his libido into overdrive?

Taryn, so when you starting your preseed? I wouldve def put it to the test already.. hehe

Ah I need to do emails and stuff but Im sooooo not in the mood.. *sigh* I need motivation and a cup of coffee.. girls Im still not losing any kgs... what could be up???

Hayley - Did you use it through-out bd marathon? Or just every now and then?

Meags - I think it sounds like you gave DH a wake up call. I hope things work out for you.

Taryn & Ika, you cant go wrong with the Pre Seed, it's brilliant! Yes, hubby found the Pre Seed on the shelf next to the lubes & condoms... Pls invest in some.. Meags, sorry you having a hard time with hubby, didnt you recently get married? Hope you sort your troubles out soon and it becomes better... Hugs! SK/Meemo, i remember you, how you doing? Welcome back, hope you get your BFP soon... Capi, now that you have your bun in the oven, dont be a stranger.. Well, i got to get Chloe to sleep as it's hubby and me time... Chat to you all later, have a good evening x x

my DH just came home about an hour ago and he doesnt want to go to therapy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I cant believe this! While I kept saying we need therapy, he says fine. now that I found a therapist, he says we are too young for therapy!
I told him our relationship is at a critical stage according to my feelings and I think we really need it. he says no...

so now he says he is willing to work on the sex problem and telling me he loves me more (since he tells me maybe twice a month) and if things still dont improve then we can go for therapy.

I'm a little shocked and dont know what to think?
perhaps his ego is bruised??

Ok well thats where Westville (durban) packed them.
I phoned before hand to make sure they had in stock. It seems like pre-seed is really a hit because she knew exactly what I was looking for.

Ika - You'll find the pre-seed with all the opks and hpts. The sales assistant found it pretty quickly when I asked (maybe she uses it )
Im giving it a go this month...Ive heard its goooood.