TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Andy, i can understand why you so upset about it and i dont blame you.... I would also be upset as they say it happens when you least expect it (falling pregnant)..

Rant and rave all you want friend, we are here to listen to you...

Hi all, just wanted to come say hi!


Andy and strikkie I AGREE with the two of yoU!

This is my 3rd last day at work!

Tomorrow is my 4 year wedding anniversay. We won't go out as we are going to Sun City next week and I feel it is better to save up some money and go out one night in Sun City! Also I am looking ate Curtains. We are buying new curtains for our master bed room as our aanniversary gift to each other! So will go to the plaza tomorrow!

HUGS and Baby Dust To all!

O yes, I bought a new laptop! Woooohooo, as the one I currently work on is a company one and I now need to give it back, so bought my new baby today!

OMW Andy, ek voel presies soos jy, hoe de duiwel kan sulke mense nog kinders he? I'm so angry now while i read your post and it feel so unfair towards us that is battling to get pregnant. I feel i can scream an throwing a vloermoer (tantrum) Why do we battle and they can't even support 1 baby but still they are getting another and soon it will be another.

I'd rather shutup now, otherwise i'm gonna get every1 in a depro now!!!!!!

Ladies, I feel like 'n Bizhub by this stage, but all the copies are made and sorted and now just busy binding the documents.

Andy - I am sommer now depressed as well. It is REALLY difficult for me to understand these things. Sorry hun, I feel your pain!

Thanks for popping in Lucy - you all better now? And your pink foot (instead of blue)

This is another depressing day on Moomies...

I agree 100% on what Lucy said... I feel the exact same way...

I am so annoyed/confused/hurt/p*ssed (take your pick) at the moment.

I quickly ran out at lunchtime and ran into a girl I haven't seen in a while. Her husband/life partner worked with DH at his previous job and we sorta know them from seeing them everyday - you know that "hi and bye" kind of relationship. We never socialised with them, but round about this time last year she was pleading with us for a place to stay and to help her get away from the guy because he was hitting her, doing drugs, left his job, was drinking, pawned about everything they owned, stole from everybody they knew and moved them (they have the cutest little girl, she was just over a year old) into a wendy house with no running water or electricity in someone back yard. She had a job that paid very little (she said she earned R1700 a month at the time) and had to pay the rent and the baby's creche and food and bills from that and then the guy still took some of her money.

Anyway to make a long story short, I felt sorry for her and especially the baby and convinced DH to let them move into the spare bedroom we had until we could help her find somewhere else to live/a better job AND I convinced my mom whose a daymother to look after the baby for free!! She stayed with us for just over 2 weeks and then went back to the guy!! I was SO pissed that I told DH is never to help her out again with lifts and stuff and I never want to hear anything about them again.

ANYWAY... I ran into her now and guess what? You guessed right - SHE'S PREGNANT!!! From the same guy!! AND HE HASN'T CHANGED!! AND THEY'RE STILL LIVING IN THE WENDYHOUSE!!!!!!!!

I mean for f#ck sakes!!! Why are people like that allowed to have kids but us, decent people by any standard who are so desperate for even ONE child have to wait and suffer for months and years!!

Ilse and Claire - Those people also irritate me!! They just have no clue! I don't think they'll appreciate their children as much as people who had to work so hard and go through so much heartache for it. Just my little rant

Hey to all the other ladies!