TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Marinda, its not just that, dh's bussines is not doing too well, so I am trying to carry us both with only my salary. This has been going on for a few months. He feels very bad, and I understand that. Just gets to me sometimes. The longer we take, the more debt we are in.

Also, I am reaching the point where I have stopped caring. Feels like I'll never have a baby. Also with the possibility that my endo might be back, I just lost it yesterday. I'm tired, you know?

Anyway, sorry for boring you all with my problems...

Hi Tracy! How are you?

Tanasha, Ilse, Andy, Hayley, Strikkie, how you ladies doing?

Hi ladies.

Sorry I have been MIA, but it has been hectic.
Firstly missed the JHB meet because of house hunting etc. Then we take the house we found in Van Riebeeck Park, 3 bed, 2 bath, secure boomed off area, stunning big yard etc etc.
So we agree to meet the landlord on Sunday in Bapsfontein where he lives to go fetch the keys etc.
The GARMIN takes us on some crapy dirt road with sharp rocks etc, and as soon as we get onto the tar again, got up to 110km/h, and the front tyre blows. We very nearly missed a head-on, then got thrown in a ditvh, which shredded the back tyre too.
Needless to say, it's a long story, so won't go on - all I CAN say is that we very lucky to get out safely the way we did, and my poor son can't stop thinking/talking about it. He really was affected badly.

SO, now that we have a house to move to (oh, and 10 minutes from our work, yay!!), and the rush & stress begin.

So ladies, please don't take me as being rude, but life is so upside down recently, I don't always get to chat

TaNasha : Holding thumbs for you!!

Marinda : I sometimes get naar only because the ovulation pain is bad! So I'm half/half on that one with you.

Everyone else, HI!! Haven't gone back to catch up properly yet, will do so when the storm has passed through my office!!

TaNasha - I think maybe testing yesterday after drinking so much water diluted your hcg levels hope you used a sensitive one and its a BFP.

I sometimes feel sick around O time too Marinda and 2kidmamma

Everyone else - good morning.

Marinda_C wrote:

Morning ladies!

Thought TaNasha would have good news already, maybe later.

Why do I feel so naar round O time? Does anyone else get this? Everything I think of makes me want to gag.

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Funny you should say that Marinda, I always feel naar at O time, I thought it was just my imagination but I sometimes feel like I need to throw up and run for the loo. (TMI i'm sorry)

Morning ladies!

Thought TaNasha would have good news already, maybe later.

Why do I feel so naar round O time? Does anyone else get this? Everything I think of makes me want to gag.

I've been reading alot about fertility and the one thing I keep stumbling on is that weight can influence your chance. Now with both my daughters I was at least 8kg's lighter. Could this be a reason it's taking so long?
Planning to lose eight before Dec anyway. Holiday on the South Coast!!

Tanz-DH and I also used to fight alot when we were really trying hard to concieve. There's just too much pressure when you start getting technical about how to do it, when to do it, what vitamins and fertility aids to use, on and on the list goes...and then a BFN.
Try not to become obsessed with ttc, I know it's hard but keep your mind busy with other things to take the stress off your mind.

Hi girls- tanasha- just putting in my 2cents, I got bfn on 12dpo with bloods n hpt!! So dnt loose hope deff. I hope u will take ur temps n use a sensitve one to do a test. Saying a prayer for u. Tanz- sorry bout the fight with dh. Hope every1 else is gr8

Helloooo girls!!

Sorry Im on a different computer at the moment so I need to go back to Andy's update to check your charts.

TaNasha, well I think it was implantation dip you had on CD12 and that huge spike is gooooood So Im feeling very positive!! And seeing you have such a huge stash of sticks, you better get peeing!! Just in case you get a + and then you didnt use those sticks to their full potential

Will be thinking of you for your test tomorrow!! Prob going to dream about it now seeing as its the last thing I do before going to bed .. hmmmm...

Hi to all you other ladies!!

Hayley, Im sure you are going to ovulate soon

xxx