so I went to the doctor...what a waste.
she is a family friend of DH's mom. I asked if she'd check my urine for UTI since this can cause cramps and she said no, as she thinks the first thing to do is send me for a scan.
She asked when last period was, I explained it's pointless calculating gestation from that as I ovulated late and expect I'm 3 weeks now. She ignored me and made me to be 6-7 weeks. she called a sonographer and said I was 6-7 weeks with contractions!!!!!!
so doc didnt even check my urine or blood pressure. she did nothing which pissed me off.
Sonographer had to do an internal which I knew since I'm 3 weeks only. Found egg in uterus measuring 2-3 weeks, so exactly since my "known" conception date. then he said either i will keep getting contractions, bleed and miscarry, or everything will be fine. he says i must go for bloods on monday again as the egg is small for 6-7 weeks....ya...ya think?? I FLIPPIN OVULATED LATE!!!! they didnt listen to anything I said. So I am not any further in discovering these pains

DH's mom is calling the doc back to order a urine test for me

Everyone seems to be stressed now including DH. originally he didnt think the first bloods i did yesterday were necessary. now the scan cost R600 and bloods on monday will be another R200 and he says I HAVE to go for them

nice to see he cares.
But I am annoyed.......although glad the egg/bean measures correctly for my known conception date and blood count and that it's in the uterus