Hi CT Kelly
I agree with everything Blessedmom has said.
I have breastfed my first LG until 10 months and still EBF my second LG.
I breastfeed when we are together and only pump at work. For me personally, pumping is not great. Very clinical and you just want to get it over with, plus all the time consuming sterilizing. Whereas breastfeeding is relaxing, you have time with you LO in your arms.
Breastfeeding should NOT be painful, if it is, baby's latch is wrong. If you experience any pain, unlactch baby and try again, or go and see a certified lactation consultant. Perhaps I am lucky, but I have never experienced painful/cracked nipples. So dont believe it if people tell you it is painful, as it does not have to be. All you need is a little help in those first few days to show you how. Most hospitals have experienced staff that can help you, or otherwise go see a lactation consultant if you are unsure, it is the best "investment" you will ever make!
As for nipple creams, just put some breastmilk on the nipple and let it dry before covering up. No need for all that lotions and potions.
Breastfeeding may be a big (and sometimes daunting) learning experience for the first few weeks, but after that it is so convenient.
I am back at work so I have to pump. What I did to make sure my LG took a bottle, was to ask a caregiver to give her a bottle once a day 2 weeks before I went back to work. This plan worked with both my girls. They refuse to take the bottle from me, as they knew I was the source