Thank you for the support ladies, I feel like a new person this morning - I can't explain to you how depressed I was last week. I know there are still lots of risks lying ahead, but we are celebrating each little "victory"!
Jooste, the test costs about R9000 as it's sent to California, USA. Labs are currently being developed in SA, but they are not ready for operation yet. I've heard that Discovery is the only medical aid that pays a portion - about R1200. Apparently there are cheaper versions of the test, but for twins we could only do the Harmony test. My sister was 39 when she had her daughter (4,5 years ago) and her gynae insisted on an amnio, which she then did, and all was a 100%. But back then I don't think tests like the Harmony existed yet. Good luck with your scan today.
Pokkeltjie, good luck with your scan too!!
DebbieF, welcome back - good luck for tomorrow, I really think it will be good news - if nothing has "happened" until now, it can only mean good things xxx
AnaB, 16 weeks - cool! Shame man, hope the MS is something of the past real soon. Good luck with your scan and holding thumbs for seeing the gender.
Nnita, that's such a great idea - wish I'd thought of that - last week I just blurted all out together with the "bad news".
Marykevs, welcome and wishing you all the best.
SimmyBunz, haha, so funny about the tummy rub
TanyaS, how's things on your side?
Yummymummy, welcome and wishing you a smooth pregnancy
Spirited Mama, how are you feeling now? Hope your pains are gone?
MrsGov, how are you doing?
Hope I haven't left anyone out.
My next scan day is 26 July.
We've decided to wait until our next scan next Tuesday before telling our daughter. Initially I wanted to do this whole thing on video to catch her reaction, but now I feel that everything has changed. We will still tell her and be happy about everything, but we have to sort of, in some way or another, warn her that things might still go wrong and that the babies will probably be in the hospital for a very long time. I have no idea how to tell her in a nice/exciting way without scaring her. Does anyone have some advice?