Pnky
Ta-da-dum!!! And your scan day has arrived!!

Enjoy it! All will be 100% fine!!
Reef / Chanti
I am so glad that (Chanti) you have started some sort of support system. IVF is challenging and apart from forums on the web, I could not get much support. But....I also was not ready to enjoy any support. For me it was a challenge keeping my own emotions in tact and due to the nature of my work - I need to be very much emotionally stable and in tact at all times. So - I could not imagine having enough energy to also deal with my parents and in laws and friends' emotions while we are going through this struggle. My parents are very emotional and my mom freaks out at the tiniest of things. My in laws are rude - makes comments such as - if one does not manage to conceive on your own - you should accept it, because IVF is not necessarily in line with their religious views. I wonder what they would say if they new how Lee was conceived?
I have since talked more and....yes....Chanti....your feeling of making infertility less shameful is wonderful. I would join your group right now.....