Thanks Vix, I have thought about teh travelling up and down, south and east are both some distance away frm hospital, we might have to consider looking for a place to stay for a while close to it, but I know the hospital has nurse homes for parents like us, that will be a different story, that we will have to cross closer to the time.
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I am completely with you with the finance part, its like getting married, u hold back because you want to try save, you're scared you dont have money, but you manage, same with a baby. Before we did treatment, I went through so many emotions about if I should or shouldn't and then when we decided it was how many embryo's, and I never ever thought they would all take, not many girls get a postive from the frist treatment and I prayed so hard that what ever was to be was meant to be, and if it were more than one baby that DH and I would be able to manage physically, mentally and financially, I am aware and do believe it is going to be a challenge, but I believe that this wouldn't of happened to us if it were not meant to be.
ISo having said that, 'll be fine, you will be fine, we all will be fine
Got bit carried away there, lol, actually just wanted to say that I also think support is alot more important than finance cos finance you can work around, cancel luxuries etc, support you cannot...