Jan/Feb 2011 Mommies (Nov & Dec 2010 early babes)

Hi Jodon. You are right.. everything happens for a reason. Dont despair. you and hubby are in our thoughts allways. God will not let you go through this alone and remember He is holding your hand...

fisrtly - joDon, i am sending you a big hug. really sorry about the MC. i hope that you have peace in your heart in the next few weeks xxx

today i went to my parents in law for fathrs day. what an absolutely terrible day. my husband is the youngest of 3 boys and 1 girl. his sister has literally disowned herself from all the siblings and families therein. i last saw her in may last year - 3 months before ashley was born. i got no congrats sms/phonecall etc. nothing at xmas or birthdays. i have emailed her pictures of her niece but still no response. i recentyl found out that she has not told her 4 kids about ashley. those kids are 11/8/7/2 yrs old. today my MIL wanted to try and get the family in CT together -we were all there. they completely disregarded ashley and cameran. i had nothing to say myself. it was the most uncomfortable day of my entire life. because i am still relatively new to this family, i was feeling very out of place. janice is 12 yrs older than me - and made sure that i knew she was the top daughter. what a cow. she has cut all the other siblings from durban and zim out-also on fb. (the zim boet she has not spoken to for 17 yrs...)
has anyone any advice as to how i could handle this horrible situation??? sorry for the long post guys...

Jodon so sorry for you loss never nice when it happens but just remember God will always give your baby back to you...

Ladies this flu is killing me....

I know it was fathers day today but hell...

Hubby also has the flu and it's sounds like he is dying, at breakfast does he have the the nerve to tell me he needs to go sleep when we get home and I must look after LO I thought I was gonna stab him with a fork I said to him in a very agry manner you can have all the flippen drugs you want to make you feel better I get ponado really you are selfish then to crown everything I got an upset tummy you know how people stare at you after you third round at the loo


So I think hubby cought my drift he didn't dare go nap nor did I we watched dvd's the whole day

No more runs just cramps and they are really eina

I can' sleep if I take the medisip awake the whole night...

Ladies please keep the plaza in mind att: Chris on the second level there's a baby shop and they are cheap the peg perego pram I want only cost R7000-00 the shops around here sell them for R120000 there angel care monitors with the breathing pad cost R1100, the feeding chairs the ones that folds up in to a table eventually cost R750 I paid R2000 for mine at Edgars I was shocked how the baby shops actually do rip us of o ja care chairs the ones from 0-5 years start at R550 ladies I am talking celinio and graco makes

Sorry for the long post just had to tell you ladies

Wish I could stay of work tomorrow but have the staff already absent

Enjoy the week ahead

JoDon- so so sorry for your loss! It sounds like you are very strong! But I agree with your gynae, MC happen for a reason and there must have been a problem with the embrio. I'm sure you'll concieve a healthy baby again soon! We will miss having you along our journey! Do pop in and let us know how you're doing from time to time.

All others, sorry I need to go back and catch up, I just wanted to reply to JoDon quickly.

JoDon i'm so sorry about your news. It's a really difficult thing to get through but your DH and you have the right attitude. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Welcome Catz! May you have a healthy and happy 8 months!

JoDon - so sorry - thinking of you.

Maryke my first can will be 5 July - week 7.
Catz- Welcome

I still have no symptoms- just bloated and dull lower back ache.

DH started calling lo - noodle- was so funny today -

JoDon so sorry to hear your news. ((((hugzz)))
Admire you for being positive.