file Oktober & November 2011 Mammas

14 years 9 months ago #217020 by Moomie Admin
I am traumatized now! I was sitting here working and husband watching TV. He is the closest to our room. I heard Sion faintly crying, but because DH didn't call me, I assumed he went to him. So a long time after that, I went out to go check on them and DH asks me why did Sion cry like that. I'm like WHAT? DIDN'T YOU GO TO HIM? No, he says, he thought I was there and Sion cried for like half an hour!

I RAN to the room and he was asleep. I am now so upset! He is only 5 weeks old and was trying to call us and no-one came. Do you think it could have harmed him emotionally? I just want to cry now myself! Worst is, NIenke's sleeping next to him and DID NOT WAKE! HELLO!

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14 years 9 months ago #217019 by skitterling
I wou nog byse Liz, maak seker ju latch is reg...as hy nie reg gelatch is nie kan hy nie jou bors ten volle leeg maak en dus by die voedende melkies uitkom ni.

Ladies, Liam just gave us his first REAL laugh!!!!!!!!!! It was so damn cute, I was playing with him when he did it, so jumped up and called hubby and he did it again....awe, he is such a friendly happy baby :) I just cant love my kids more :heart:

In 24hours exactly the kids will be here, hubby is so excited I cant even explain it

Mommy to Micheala, Liam and 2 step daughters.
Living in Ruwais, Abu Dhabi
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14 years 9 months ago #217018 by skitterling
HAHAHAHAHAHA JANA! Hoe lekker laat jy my nou lag :) daai ekstra hande gaan net help vuilmaak :)

Jul roetine klink nice, hoop hy pas gou aan daarby. My kids weier NOU NOG albei n dummy...ai, het al so hard probeer

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Living in Ruwais, Abu Dhabi
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14 years 9 months ago #217017 by skitterling
Claire here is my day:

9:00 we all wake up, I take a bath with (and sometimes without) M. L will be in his cot
9:30 -10 breakfast and feed L
10-11 playtime with the kids
11-12 cleaning time, usually L sleeps and M follows me around and help (rooms clean)
12-1 make and eat lunch, partly clean kitchen
1-3 M sleeps and I do the rest of the cleaning. L wakes up at 2 so I set aside 1hour for his feed
3-4 playtime again
4-6 start dinner and clean the kitchen,go to market if needed
6-7 feed kids at the same time and clean the last part of the house (living room)
7-8 have dinner while kids play
8-8:30 bath kids
8:30 - 9 play and relax time
and 9-10 relax time and feeding L time
10 M goes to bed, L takes a short nap
11-2 Feed and play wit L and go to bed once he is asleep

We do have "off days" that I do not clean anything but the kitchen and beds, and those days I just play with the kids, take them to the park etc

(cleaning includes washing and ironing)

My tip, take each day as it comes and do everything as fast as possible and involve the kids while cleaning or cooking. We like singing and dancing while cooking :)

Good luck with princess, hope the cramps settle soon, glad to hear Colby is such an angel

Mommy to Micheala, Liam and 2 step daughters.
Living in Ruwais, Abu Dhabi
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14 years 9 months ago #217016 by Moomie Admin
Hi all

Claire, I was out of it emotionally the first few days that I didn't realize Sion would be awake for 3 hours at a time. When my husband left on Monday, I realized I'll have to do something to be able to cope. I just remembered what an amazingly easy baby Nienke was and I did exactly the same with him than with her. I started putting him on a three hour feeding schedule (give or take, i'd never let him go hungry. Also, he had a growth spurt this weekend and my boobs are finished! :-) I can't keep up. Every hour or so...), I then started taking him to dark room after about 45 minutes awake, wrapped him, put on the Majors for Minors sleep sense CD and rocked him till his eyes wanted to close and then put him down. I still have to go in quite a few times, because he spits out the dummy and then gets majorly upset. I also started bathing hiim at night. So bathtime, it's bath, bed, boob whilst CD playing. Nienke then also baths, bottle, bed.

It's really worked well so far. Apart from this weekend. But I wake him at about 10:30 for a quick feed, he then sleeps till about 2am, then till 5am and then till 7am. I wish I can get him to skip the 5am feed! But ja, it will come, I suppose. At least I'm getting some sleep in. I also give him telement drops after his bath as a precautionary measure.

So sorry to hear she has cramps! I'm sure it will get better! Colic only starts at 2 weeks, so it can't be colic. :-) Yes, the chiro is sure to help. Although I couldn't really see a difference in Sion's mood afterwards. Wish they could tell us what was wrong when the cry!
Glad to hear Colby is such a star.

Hallo Liz! Dankie vir die inloer! Laai Opera Mini op jou selfoon, dan kan jy met ons chat! Ek stem saam met Skitter oor die voeding.

Skitter, jy gaan die ander kids daar so geniet. Dink net hoeveel ekstra hande dit beteken. :-) Jy is amazing hoor, ek weet nie hoe jy dit alles so alleen doen nie. Elrike ook!

Lindy, hoe gaan dit by die huis?

I have some work to finish. Really hope this is all before the end the year. I need a break!

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14 years 9 months ago #217015 by Claire
Hey ladies,

Sitting here with my little princess eating like a star! It's the only time she's really happy...she has terrible cramps! (I refuse to call it colic!!!) She just wants to be held all the time...we had a four hour screaming session today. Not fun. Don't know what I'm going to do when DH has to go back to work. :unsure: Fortunately, my son is being a star. Hoping that doesn't change when mommy is stuck with a screaming baby and can't see to him. Taking her to the chiro next week...her shoulders did get a bit stuck on the way out. Really hoping that works. I also have a terrible cough...will have to see the doc tomorrow because my chest is actually sore from coughing!

Chanz - glad you found a way to make your baby happy. It's so heartbreaking when they're in obvious pain and you can't do anything.

Deja - sounds like you're coping well with the 2 of them! Sion is growing so nicely...when did you put him onto the baby sense routine?

Liz - I feel your pain...I am also feeding all day long. At night it's every 2 hours. Try the tissue salt mag phos for the hiccoughs...it takes a while to work but really helps. Hope it gets better soon...this usually only lasts 3 months. (I hope)

Skitter - what is your routine with the 2? I need some ideas. I have DH til end of next week and then I'm on my own. I would like to set up a routine with them starting from tomorrow. Any tips welcome!

Lindy - sorry your girl is having issues! Don't worry - I'm sure she'll go back on the breast. Is she home yet?

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14 years 9 months ago #217009 by skitterling
Liz, my mannetjie sal MAKLIK vir drie ure aaneen drink, maar as ek hom neersit en bietjie speel met hom vergeet hy dat hy wou drink, so hou ek voedings tye korter. Is hy regtig honger of wil hy net suig dalk? Babas wat hou van baie suig kan n dummy voor werk, dalk moet jy dummy in plaas van bottel gee? Maar as hy honger is, is dit n ander saak.

Hik is normaal vir meeste babas, ek dink reflux is slegs as hul by elke voeding opbring? Mag verkeerd wees.

Drink jy vitamines? Kan jou melk ook meer voedend maak.

Sterkte, hoop jou internet word gou uitgesorteer

Mommy to Micheala, Liam and 2 step daughters.
Living in Ruwais, Abu Dhabi
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