This is very sad, my Dr was one of those who tried the scare tactics, kept telling me that natural birth laying down was best, told me horror stories about giving birth squatting and incontinence and I changed Dr's 2 days before P was born and he let me squat and it was much easier to push my daughter out.
I dint like the hospital vibe, but being a first time mom I was a bit anxious and went the hospital route, the care I got at a private hospital (sandton) was shocking, call bell didn't work in my private room, I nearly fainted from the bleeding after birth and my husband had to scream for help, they never took me for a Sitz bath, didn't give me my anti inflammatory meds until I left, kept forgetting to bring me food and kept taking about my c section even though I had natural birth and then they let us walk out without checking the security band on my daughters arm, so frankly its probably more dangerous at a hospital ( other than high risk pregnancies of course) When we have baby no 2 I am seriously considering Genesis clinic
Not birth related, but just to give you an idea of how dangerous hospitals can be my uncle went to a private hosital wehn he fell off a roof about 1.5 years ago and they gave him an overdose of morphione ( calculated his weight wrong) and now he has severe brain damge, required roudn the clock care and will proabaly never work again, the lawyers working on his case, say that negligence in private hospitals is at an all time high....
Not trying to scare anyone, but just agree with MissessMom that hospital deaths aren't reported with such vigor !