Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

hehe Simone - my routine keeps me shane, but we only have an evening routine, and I make sure we follow it otherwise W can be difficult.
My sister is 12 years older than me, so she does try and manage me and my husband and for W, some incidents is if I am sitting there and I have just talked to W about something he must not do, and he does it again, and even before I could speak to him she would say something, then I will tell her I am busy talking to him, and I will handle it, she just klap her tongue and ignore me. So it is a very difficult situation.
I do not get on with her well, but we sometime do get along. she lives next door so whenever we go somewhere she would as what are we going to do and so on, it is not just once but everytime, so I do get annoyed with it.
It is very difficult living with my parents as they also want to know all the time what are going to do, what time will be back, I am 30 and have been married more than 7 years already so it does get a little much.

My next option is my friend that lives in Krugersdorp, closer than Randfontein, and they have a nanny at home, so should it come to that point W and their little girl can spend the day playing if I need that.

I do not think that this thing with my sister is going to become better soon, unfortunately my parents go on holiday next week and the we have to co-ordinated dinners and so on. My sister eats with us every night, she is not married and do not have any children.

Hi Everyone,

Simone, ooh how relieved am I now! We also don't have a routine, phew, thought we were the only ones...

Nelria, glad you guys are getting better so fast!

I've been really rude the past few weeks but after being sick for 6weeks before being able to get enough antibiotics in and get well I don't really care! I sent some friends home the other weekend because when they came here the guy went straight for my throw and covered himself up and sat there looking miserable because he didn't feel well, so I said "rather go home, I don't wanna catch whatever you've got!" Then I had to leave to take the maid home and when I got back they were gone Well as it turns out his wife took him to hospital and they put him on an IV and then said he had a viral flu (I thought all flu was viral, but whatever). And when we get invited somewhere I first ask who is gonna be there and if anyone is sick .

Ally, hope it doesn't come to that for you (hugs)

We always pray before dinner and now when I start to dish up Iris starts going amen until we pray and start eating

Ankia, hope you manage to sort out the issues with your family.

ok, can't remember much more, and the next batch of washing has just finished so gotta go. Enjoy your day ladies!

Hi ladies

Wow its been a hectic day for me!!!

Ally my cousin's family also rotten with cancer so she and her sister had that cervical cancer vaccine I think it is? That's the cancer they're prone to. So sad to me how some families are so badly affected with cancer. Her mom died at 41 14yrs ago. I hope it doesn't come to that for u.

Ankia does your sister have kids? And are u close...you and your sister! Please don't hate me but I find when Addison slept at my mom she was so hyper and excited...any routine out the window! At the end of the day your sister I'm sure loves your son and is doing you a 'favour' of sorts especially as this would have been trial run for birth? I mean is one night out of routine really the worst thing in the world? Look I think I'm the only mom here with no routine so perhaps I don't fully comprehend.

I hate arguing with my sister...and she loves Addison like a daughter so maybe I'm a bit biased in how to handle it as well. Maybe if it was my sil I'd be singing very different tune!!! Lol

Everybody else...hello!I'm so hungry...on audit and didn't bring lunch, skipped breakfast cause so busy! Waiting for G to fetch me now so I can eat something!

morning

helen i ended up getting the best and quickest result from medaspor the vaginal cream if a spot returns i lather it on and repeat whenever i remember carry a tube around worked like charm after everything else failed xxx

ally - WOW girl

ankia - i dont know what to say - what about neighbours?, friends? or talking to hospital about nurses waiting room or something - i would have flipped too but if suster is only option maybe heart to heart will help

afm - sooooooooo much beter its freakin weird how we are recovering? i swear its those suggar stuff i mentioned as xen gets vrot sick then just recover - lea dont go past sunny nose and as for me yesterday throat on fire today nthing? not complaining just amazed

Morning mummies,

Ankia - Sorry about your arguments with your sister and mum, they need to repect your wishes, I hope you're able to find the best solution for everyone.

Angelique - I'm sorry AF has arrived, FX for this month! I'm glad Lee-anne's story helped you see it in a more positive light

Julz - Lol at Dylan telling the sitter what's what. Good luck with your op, hope you get some relief afterwards!

Ally - Shooo that's some drastic action but I completely understand. When we had to take Oliver to a genetic specialist (when they thought he had that weird thing where one side grows quicker than the other) we had to go completely into our history and we ended up talking about Lee-anne's cancer and she said to us that usually, the breast cancer gene is passed on from your father's side and that its more prominent in those of Afrikaans heritage (which Theo's dad is)...I don't know how true that all is but that's what she explained to us.

Nelria - Help!! What cure did you find worked best for Xen's dribble rash?! Nina is getting blisters on her chin and I'm in need of a miracle cure! Hope your brood feels better soon.

Lelani - Sorry I've been meaning to say congrats on Chanel making the choir!! Go Chanel!!

Ok, gotta get back to work now, will try again later

I will only be doing the surgery IF I have the gene and if the Medical Aid is willing to pay (they did for my aunt). I'm just so scared of not having breasts for a couple of months. If you put the implant ontop of the raw flesh it can go horribly wrong so you have to let it heal first. That's the only thing I'm nervous for.

Julz, glad you got to have some time out. Dylan sounds SO cute.

Ankia, sorry about the fighting.

I've started praying to the twins at night and they sit with their eyes closed and their hands together, last night I forgot to pray and Aidan kept saying "Need to pray to Jesus". Chris could not stop laughing. It's amazing to me that I married an unreligious man who is so open to me teaching our kids my religion. He says aslong as he doesn't have to pray for them he doesn't mind.

Thanks Julz

Mandy, I hopw Cam slept better

Pfairy - Enjoy the train ride, it is going to be so much fun

Vix, - congrats on getting the twin stroller

Nel - hope you and the kids get better soon
When boys potty train, they start to sit and at a later stage they can stand - that is what I do with W

Helen - such a great inspirational story about you SIL, I hope she enjoys her holiday

Ally - I do not know what to say, but I am sure if the gene was in our family, I will also take that step.

If I have forgotton about anyone - sorry

Have a great day