Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

Morning ladies

I know this is shocking...but I am going to be very busy...leaving on audit soon...so AGAIN quick post!

Mandy THAT SUCKS!!!! Way too much money...what now?? You must be soooo disapointed:-(

Vix...you are a better woman than I am...lol. I mean I would have just appreciated a call saying...'going to pub, see you much later' as opposed to being told I'm on my way, on my way. G would not be alive today. That being said...YOU REALLY NEED TO BE MORE SELFISH!!!!!! SERIOUSLY!!!

Enigma hope you're well;-)

Ladies I see Yoza says something about being in hospital??? Anybody know what's up???

Lisha glad you had a better night!

We had CRAP night. Addy played with cousin til after 9pm (bed time is between 7 and 8)...she was in hyper energiser bunny mode! Getting her down took more effort than usual. Woke up screaming random things in middle of night, shouting at us, crying..my word I was ready to elbow her in the face cause I told G to put her in our bed as maybe it would help...hell no it didnt! So tired today! Look like crap to go see client cause no chance to shave legs this morning to wear knee length skirt and heels...so looking frumpy

Morning all,

Enigma- hi there, hope your workload eases up a bit soon xxx

Ange- I hope the Paed has some answers for you today! X

Ally- how you feeling today hun? I hope they don't decide to shoot Pasella in CT or if they do I hope you can go.

Lisha- did Geko's haunt your dreams?

Simone- grrrrr I hope you don't have to come back early on Monday for work. Where you going this weekend anywhere nice?

I was a bit pi$$ed last night, DH phoned at 4 to say he might be a bit late if he gets stuck in traffic so by 6:30 I tried ringing him to see how long and if Me &C can have our dinner but he didn'r answer. So we ate and by 7:30 all 3 kids were awake and needing baths so I phoned again and I could hear he was in the pub. So irritated I difficultly manahged to bath all 3 kids get them all ready for bed and start giving babies bottles. DH rang at 8 to say he was leaving now, he got home at 9:30 because the roads were so wet with the storm. Needless to say all kids were in bed and I was actually about to get into bed myself when he rocked up. But this is the bit I think Ange is going to like, he walked in and said "sorry Mommy, are you angry?" But instead of shouting and screaming (like I really felt like doing) I told him "NO, I'm not angery I'm DISSAPOINTED" and I left it at that and didn't say another word for 30min. Eventually after he really started to feel like cr@p he apologised for dissapointing me but he had to take these clients for a beer cos they're placing a huge order. I told him I don't mind if he does that occasionally but if he could just have called me on his way to the pub I could've asked our neighbour to come help me bath the kids. It's not easy co ordinating our evenings witrh 2 adults never mind me alone. Well after I'd made him feel totally guilty I made peace with it. It's amazing how a guilt trip is so much more effective than fighting, I hate fighting.

I sometimes think that because I DO cope everyone thinks it can't be that difficult but actually I put a cr@p load of effort and energy into coping alone and I try not to moan and complain too much, I don't insist on the kids being in creche or me having a nanny, I don't insist on DH babysiting at weekends so I can have quiet time, I try my best to be self sufficient and contained but come on, that doesn't mean I don't find it difficult. Grrrrr

Now he tells me he wants to book a holiday in April and we can go away to the Kruger along with his boss & GF and 'relax' because he says I must need a break. HELLOOOOOO he might be able to take leave but I have to take my work with me. And chances are the kids will be much harder work when away from home. How is that a holiday for me? Now I must sit in the back of a car driving around the Kruger passifying 2 5m old babies? Mmmmmm is it just me or does that not sound relaxing?

Grrrr sorry just had to have a vent this morning

Damn I wish I was more selfish!

shame poor little cole..and poor mommy! I know when cameron has cried for 20 minutes it gets horrible , you feel so helpless.. and the longer he cries the more sad his tears get! Last night he cried like that just coz he didnt want to bath! after trying to distract and console him for the 20 minutes, I just decided that little boys dont die if they dont bath and Im not forcing him coz I couldnt stand him any longer

Lelani - holding thumbs for you

So my really bad news is that we have to cancel our building plans!!! Im pretty annoyed to say the least.. but it cant be helped!! Bascially to build on in a sectional title complex, the legislation makes it too expensive with all the municipal approvals to build.. and I didnt understand the process in full, as I had an email guiding me through the process by my managing agent of the complex. Then I contacted a council approval assistance company and I trusted her advice.. she got my council approval but even she didnt understand the process in a sectional title unit, So yesterday it was confirmed by 2 sources that after spending R1000 for the drawings and R3000 for the council approvals, I STILL have to hire a sectional title lawyer to draw up some documents AND employ a land seveyor to certify the building has gone according to the archtecual drawings approved by council. Only once this is done can my title deeds at the bank be altered to include the new bedroom. The landsurveyors costs alone ar R10 000!! and based on this I have cancelled the builder today! gotta go, as Im in the office!!

Hi ladies.


Naaema hope things calm down at work for you, hope you and the family are doing well

Angie how was Cole last night and this morning? Improvment i hope?

Vix it looks like you winning the GHD comp YAY

Lisha hope the day is not to hectic for you

Jessica how are you feeling?

Afm we K was a bit restless last night so got up a few times to pat him eventually around 04:30 i went and lay with him and he slept until 05:30 - so early morning . But going to keep on insiting he sleep in his own bed as it will get easier in the next few days. The house is coming on nicely and we going to go shopping this weekend for some new bathroom things and some lounge decor - YAY . Yesterday i bought K a lovely light blue towel which has red and dark blue helicopters and planes on and he went crazy for it, really loves planes now. When we see a plane, i ask him where is it going to and he tells me "the airport" lol, very cute

K still has runny noise and cough, today was his last day on cortizone so started him on rinex last night which has helped slightly.

Hope everyone has a lovely day.

Hi ladies

Naaema hope things calm down at work soon.

Angelique I hope Cole was better last night.

We had a much better night than we did the rest of the week. Shrey slept in his cot mostly but still seriously considering getting the single bed. This morning he came to cuddle next to me and says he likes noonies LMAO I said yes but you don't drink noonies anymore !!!

Anyway got to run, loads of work to do. Hate end of February .... short month and still taxes etc to be done grrrrrrr

MORNING LADIES

Hello to each and everyone of you guys miss you loads it`s just been so hectic at work i can hardly post .

Will chatch up now and chat later

You guys must have yourselfs a wonderful day

xxxxx

Thanks ladies...I really have been showing him some extra love and attention but it has not seemed to be working either. So I phoned my paed and she was not in today so will give her a call tomorrow morning. Luckily she likes chatting to you over the phone first to discuss the issued and then we can decide together if it is truly necessary to visit her. Though I think it would be nice to take Cole for a check-up again as he has not been in a while.