Yoza- so sorry your news made you feel so bad, I undersdtand the sister's concern but it's not like ahe's eating anything fatty, she's on Formula during the day and breast at night, that's got to be better than a baby on formula 24/7. C has always drank more milk than the RDA but he's not over weight. Maybe she is just going to grow like Cam and Oliver did, they both grew so fast but now they have both really averaged out, when you look at them now they look no bigger than the other kids really.
Maybe stop the rice cereal, that's basically empty carbs and that will cause weight gain, stick to veggies more than fruits, sweet potatoes rather than regular potatoes. That way I can't see she would be putting on any more weight than her body naturally wants to.
Lelani- the problem with C is it's not a case of putting him back in bed repeatedly, he will scream for hours and no amount of putting him back to bed works, I know I did it for over an hour last thursday. When he was in the cot he was the same during these bad phases, he will scream the house down until he gets what he wants, no one can sleep through it and he never gives in, I have left him for an hour and still he doesn't stop crying. I think it's time to see if he might understand about rewards chart, I want to give him smiley faces and prizes for sleeping through and eating all his dinner things like that but I thought he might still be a bit small but then as I say that he understands a lot more than I give him credit for.