Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

Morning ladies

Helen: know how you feel. when my parents were around it was so nice just to go out with DH for drinks. Once in a while we all need a breather. I hope you take mandy's offer.

Angelique: when do we meet up. tell me when your available. It would really be nice seeing you guys.

Nelria: ouch ouch shame poor lea and the fall i hope she's not badly hurt. hope you all get better.

Simone: Just you writing down addy accident just gives me the jitters. shame poor baby. all the best with your papers today.

Ally: yes yes rub it in you are one lucky mummy. your hubby is so involved with the twins. hope you manage the cam coder deal. i just want something cheap.

lwasi: have you started preparing for your trip to pakistan.

christi: how do i not complement you on a job well done. the batromm looks lovely.

Zee where are you hiding?

Lisha: how is work any directors driving you crazy i remember reading that you would'nt mind changing jobs.

Leigh: that B.........c of a lady should just get over hirself. just tell him off. your just to sweet. she should have known better.

Vix:when is the next gynae visit. im sure you are jut loving this pregnancy as its such a blessing. when i thin i about you im full with smiles.

Julz: miss you so much. pains my heart that ill have to wait ages to see you and catch up.

ok if left anyone sorry a big hi to pfairy, nicole, Ara i see you logged on gal yesterday but did not post

Anyway, gotta go have a lovely day mummies

and for me - im heartsore today - Im really not handling an argument with my dh well. My mom wants to visit this thurs til tues, then my dad wants to visit next thurs til tues and my dh is so unimpressed!! WHAT A PRICK!! I can say that here but i am so so careful with him because we dont often fight.. I just wanted to bombard him with all my thoughts but i didnt want to go on and on and sound like a fish wife so I shut up! and the more I kept quiet the angrier i got... so he got home and I was so excited i said, guess what my mom wants to come on thurs, is that okay - so he says well I dont care what he says anyway so whatever - so i said, okay , so next time, i shoudnt tell him then? so he says well where is she going to stay? so i said - in the 4th bedroom!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( we dont have a fourth bedroom and marc knows that who ever stays has to sleep on a mattress on the flippen floor in the lounge!!! Not the best for a 66 year old moms and dads but my family dont visit and then stay in a hotel, they visit to see us all the time...grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Its not his house, its mine too and my family should FEEL welcome all the time - they visit twice or 3 times a year and its not nearly enough for me and basically I think he is an anti social arsehole when it comes to this!! We both got up and never spoke this evening and im still fuming with a not in my stomach as I REFUSE to let this go - I need to have it out with him and tonight we will have to do so as I cant think about anything else...

Hellooooo galssss

Yoza good to hear from you, I bet MOST of us still have wight to loose and most of us its still from our first babas!! so i really dont blame you for not being able to shift the weight, esp with your recent family stresses - Just do it slowly!

Ally - twins are hard work my friend! you guys continue to impress me. Holding thumbs for you calling Kate.

Vix - sheesh, without Julz and Lisha - you really did start talking to yourself yesterday poor gal! Shame I check on your January blog every now and then so I can enjoy the banter and I feel so sorry for The gal having triplets on bedrest from so early on in pregnancy with bleeding - it must be so so frustrating and so so scarey!!

Nicole - how is K today?

Helen so why dont you pm me your cell number as I am keen to also get out of the house now and then!! and we live so close - When you need to get out, send me a text and lets see if you can come over to my house sometime to get Oliver out of Theos hair? or we can go to a park and have picnics etc.. Im also with out family and would LOVE the company and someone for cameron to get naughty with!! ALso - living in a complex I often land up walking around the whole complex exploring - looking for bikes and kitties and saying hello to anyone we see - especially the security guard

lwasi - tick tock tick tock girl before u jetset

oh ja mia well done mis grown up

ok so on wknd went o jingle jangle was very nice, visited twins etc but on sat i woke up lea runs down the hallway only in top so i ask brett? he says she refuses nappy so he is nappy training - anyway she ped on carpet 3 times so i had enough and forced nappy on her (we were on way out for day) so now every change she gets she ripps nappy off so literally waiting for heat then intensive training for us

she is obsessed with getting her self potty trained she goes in her room in the corner lifts her shirt pretends to pull down pants then squats and say piepie piepie then pulls up and shirt down and then repeats this like 50 times (oh and mummy has to play it too - she got brett to play to LOL

oh and she fell on thurs at school i got call (shit u skrik) went to fetch with massive bump and pin size gash but apparently she bled very badly

was supose to do 8wk injections tomorrow but will cancel not feeling confident doing it while xen is sick

ok got to go xen is upset

xxx

galooooooooooooo

ok so me and two babes sick sick sick grrrrrrrrrrrr i spent al night sucking snot out of xen and blowing mine just to get through a feed feeling sooooooooo sorry for myself now

vix - love love love the names specially the shortenend versions sounds very cool - now i can really call them dudes - ok so want to see u next week didnt want to make u sick but was pissed that had to cancel

ally - so glad u found and tried meat place i love love love them so clean, nice, compact packaging and cheap - i dont know about rump etc but for cooking their stuff ideal - did u remember to give them your nr to sms specials? other wise phone them and ask to be put on list as they have specials fri/sat/sun and they are so so good like whole chickens R15, R45 for oxtail/neck etc oh and R85 biltong sometimes too

simone - shame re addy's hand it sucks and good luck exams

jessica - sorry for your loss friend

christi - loving the bathroom

zamzie - going to dr mostert?

helen - stupid tiffs grrrrrrr

leigh - stupid stupid women i would have so stripped myself by now and read her her fortune

the rest of u galoooooooooo

morning mommies,

Ally so glad that it was actually nothing to worry about, but you got us scared yho

Shame Vix you were all by yourself on moomie yasterday LOL but I am sure your bubbly personality and contagoius (sp) happiness kept you in tact. You are so happy my friend in everything you say and do you are joyous...wow

Helen so sorry my love about the tiffs but as you say its the feeling of bieng overwhelmed, it will sort itself out. So glad to hear that the pregnancy is going well and you so lucky re weight.

Zamzie thanks for popping in, good to hear that the pregnancy is going well on your side too please update us after the gynea visit.

Jessica so sorry about all your losses my friend, stay strong.(((((( Hugs))))))

Nicole so glad that you didnt have to buy another medicine and that you have resolved your tiff wit DF.

Juls shame you sound so hectic, please remember to take a deep breath in between everything else hey

Simone you have a very sweet nanny, really you are so blessed with Cynthia for everything. You are already there with your studies just keep on, I am so proud of you.

Whoohooo to Iris and Shrey and C and Dylan for sleeping in big beds, congratulations mommies you must be so proud

Pfairy, I really dont know what to say of Mia I am so speechless. She is behaving so grown up and responsibly, just reading your posts brought tears to my eyes, you must be so proud and I am so happy for you, you have done a great job mommy.

Hi girls.

Helen, so sorry about all the pregnancy niggles. I had all of that when I was pregnant. I was terribly congested. My dr gave me Flomist which is REALLY good and you can use all the time. Maybe you should ask him about it? Sorry about the bickering!

Simone, hope Addy's hand gets better soon. Good luck for the exams.

I officially have the best husband in the world (I know we all say that lol). Aidan has been sleeping in our bed from about 2 every night since going away. We allowed it there and we allowed it when they were sick but now that they are better, we need to get him out. And that's no easy task with this child. We try to ignore him, we try to tell him to SLEEP, we smacked him. It just makes everything worse and he literally screams like we are trying to slit his throat. My dad came storming in with a bat the other night coz he thought he was being attacked! No jokes! AND he only wants C. If I go, he freaks out and throws a tantrum galore. Now we can't just leave it because he'll wake Abi so now C sits with him until he falls asleep. We don't want to even pick him up. THis has happened now for the last 2 nights and my darling husband is just so amazing. He sits with him so patiently and it's just amazing. I think last night it was close to an hour. But I'm going to tell him that from tonight he must limit contact and stuff or else Aidan will just get used to him sitting there every night.

ANd then Abigail is a dream child right now (touch wood that doesn't change). She almost never throws a tantrum, she does obviously but not half as much as Aidan. She goes to sleep at night now without her bottle. We still giver her 100ml milk but she doesn't even drink it. Just pops her dummy in and dozes off. And she is just such a pleasant little girl.

We've also started roping them in to do work lol. Gotta love child labour hey? (just joking!) Aidan would stand all day and sweep/mop if we allowed him. Yesterday the floor was all sticky so I told him to clean it lol, went to go get the mop and cleaned it. Abi 'ta's' me everything I ask for. Nappies, bum cream, wipes, bottles, cutex remover, nail files...it's bliss lol.

It's our 2 year anniversary on Sunday. I can't believe it's been so long already. And yesterday was the anniversary of us meeting, 7 years ago!! It's amazing. We are just dropping the twins at my aunt on Sunday and going for lunch at one of my fav places, Pacha's and then C wants to watch INception so we'll go do that. CAn't wait to be alone with him for a bit.

Anyway, I have nothing to do today except phone a lady that Mandy set me up with for quite a big career changing thing. IF it comes through, I'll tell you ladies more. Other than that I'm just going to relax with the twins and maybe paint with them.