Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

OMG!! Just found the twins wandering around the garden by the fish pond by themselves!!! They opened our room door and climbed through the doggy door by my dad's side! Now we have to lock our room door so they can't open it. LIttle brats!

Mandy lol. Cam sounds too sweet. xxx

Hi dolls.

Well C and I are definitely MUCH better with each other, now already.

Leigh, that's one thing that I promised myself I would never give up. Yes I'm a mom and yes I'm a wife but I'm also still a woman with hair and nails and a face and boobs that need to be flaunted lol. I make a priority to paint my nails at night when the twins go to bed, I don't do my make-up every day but I do it when I go out (at least once a week), and even though my hair is in a bun most of the time, I try to make it a 'pretty' or 'messy' bun every now and then and I slide a headband on to make it at least look more stylish. I wear tracksuit pants a lot of the time but when I go out I try to look my best and put on jewellery, I need to still feel like me sometimes.

I'm slowly losing the weight which is also helping. BUt I also have 0 sex drive right now. Guys I'm not joking when I say we haven't done it in the last month. I was ABSOLUTELY shocked when I realised it's been so long but I get turned on and by the time I get to C to tell him I'm exhausted and I'd rather go to sleep. What can I do to get my sex drive back?

Anyway, all the shopping is done and I've packed all the medicines ( I take everything known to man as the closest town is Rustenburg and even that is like an hour away from the lodge) so I'm well prepared. Everything from empaped, stopayne, allergy meds and immodium. My medical kit is well stocked!

Where is Helen, Ara, Angelique, Lwasi and Lelani today? Feels like there are others also missing too ......

Hey Lisha

Cam is very well.. well besides that he ALWAYS has a runny nose! actually dh has INSISTED that i take cam to the ENT this week as we literally cant let cam SMELL anything as his nose is always blocked so now i am finally going..

but gorgeous and cute and wonderful and fun and amazing ( okay he slept through last night after eating all his dinner ) can you tell!!

we are off to PE this week end on saturday midday.. we are catching the GAUTRAIN just for the fun of it.. so dh is coming on the train with us and will catch it back to his car.. as its just cam and i going to see the fam til tuesday - not long enough but i only get 15 days a year leave of which 7 are compulsory in dec.. BOO HOOO

but we are happy and well ! Cam is talking up a storm and copying all our words or trying too and he thinks he has them right, its quite funny to listen to him and BOY does he love to SING - you kinda catch every 5th word.. like lla laa luuuuu ttooo keeee TISHUE TISHUE all fall DOWWWNNNNNN... etc etc

JUST LOVE IT!

okay gotta goo soon

VIX AND ALLY - i know you are busy but we wanna see piccsss from the meeettt!! C MON GALS

VIX - im sooooo excited about your appoint this friday..gotta find out the sex!

Hi again ladies. Almost time to go home well 30 mins more but still ... missing my boy terribly today can't wait to hug him this evening.

Leigh I have to agree with Julz & Mandy 'me time' is so important. Try telling your hubby that you do NEED some time to yourself and I am sure he will understand. I used to be like you, when not at work all my time was spent with Shrey. Then my dad got ill this time last year and then he passed away in December and I definitely NEEDED me time and dh understood. Even if it was quick coffee with friends or just time for my facial, I was relaxed and focussed in me for a change. I still take me time once or twice a month and I feel so much better than I used to. And I leant how to not feel guilty because as Mandy says nobody will look after you if you don't ... I know it's easier said than done but for your sanity your have no choice but to take some time for yourself!!!

Mandy how is Cam? When's your trip to PE?

Julz love the no tracksuit rule

Nelria no fair I didn't get a chance to hold Xen this weekend so I will volunteer and will send you forwarding address

I agree Mandy. And leigh is beautiful.