Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

Lelani, shame that sounds hectic. BUt good on you for taking responsibility and doing the right thing!

Happy Anniversary Lisha!

Ara, They are down for their nap now and I'm going in 5 mins. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to run away and never come back. But I'll miss them too much..I think lol

Ally... You must enjoy the shopping and I think all the babies are moaning Maude or Myrtle's at the moment!!

sent dh a message asking why it's fine for him, but not me....still haven't had a reply

ally, hope you get out soon & that things will sort themselves out soon xxx

angie, I get the same look from zian...
dont stress about the talking....our boys are just lazy...lol
believe you me...once they start we'll beg them to just stop for 5min
re finances....my story...
we stayed in jhb & both me & dh earned good salaries & owned a flat & things were going good financially, but our marriage was on the rocks...
then I got a offer to transfer to CT.
It has always been our dream to stay here so we packed up & came, thinking that dh would get a job easily with all his experience...
suprise, suprise.....
in CT they dont care about exp...only papers & dh had nothing...so for months he could not find a job...we had to sell our place in jhb, coz we could not afford rent & a bond...the profit we made from that helped us survive a few months....then it was finish & the trouble started...
we were fighting all the time coz I was depressed & stressed & he felt worthless cause he couldn't find a job & support his family. I made soooo much dept....without him even knowing about it
then he got a job for a very low sallery...so I kept making dept & lying about things
after about 2 years he worked himself up & started earning more money, but I was running into walls not being able to pay all my dept....so he found out about it & we almost got divorced again
I was so negative about everything & just wanted to pack my bags & go back to jhb & start all over again.
got some good advise & went to a dept consolidating company. they helped me to work out a budget & I was put under dept consolidation....so now I pay my dept of every month...only the amount that I can afford. it will take a few years longer but atleast everybody is being paid a small amount that they aggreed on. while I'm under dc I cant make any other dept, but once I've paid off everything, my name will be clear & dept free
If things are getting out of hand, I really suggest you do it, just make sure that the company is regitered with the national dept council!!!
there are some crooks out there

now things are getting better & our lives are much more possitive.

Talking is the best meds xxx

Ara right now I feel like rather strangling him. I can't wait for 1 so I can just get out for an hour. So irritated with him and the twins. Aidan has not stopped moaning all morning!

oh thanx girls...love chatting to myself...lol

re leash....we got zian one & I LOVE IT!!!!
I tie it around my arm & hold his hand, so he cant get away from me & when he pulls his hand out...he cant get far
the looks are so funny actually, coz I'm such a b&^%h....I stare back...lol
have only had one comment & i politely (in a very sarcastic voice) asked if she would help me looking for my child if he got lost....the shock on her face....priceless
o yes...I once heard a young girl (20's) say.."shame, that poor lil boy"....& I said...that poor lil boy's mommy loves him...priceless!!!

My biggest concern with the dummy is CJ is not really talking yet, only a few words here and there. When he mummbles something with the dummy in his mouth, I just say mommy can't hear you when you're talking with your dummy in, then he takes it out and repeats what he said, and I can sometimes actually hear that he is repeating on the same tone and with the same sounds he used... and sometimes he gets a bit irritated to have to repeat, and then repeats himself but with a little aggrivation in his tone, and he touches me and comes close and looks me straight in the eye with a serious look on his face...LOL... as if I'm stupid for not understanding the first time!