June 2010

Morning ladies!

Nelria - awesome about hte clothes hey, i got given loads of 0-3 months clothes my friends aunty passed them on so sweet!

Lucy - glad you taking off time to rest you need it!

Tripping up - i am so lucky! hasnt happened to me yet! lol am sure it will tho.

Christening - i also agree on the bible, i still remember my first bible i got when i was a child okay i was older but i loved it!

Eve - you know what i think! Ignore the men and patch up your own friendship! seriously. If they want to be childish let them, okay she cant drive or whatever and he wont bring her to your house and you dont want to go there, so meet up for coffee or movies, or a shopping date both your DH's can drop you off at the mall and you can spend time together! men are difficult and you cant force them to be friends BUT you can tell them that you are not interested in their problems but you still want to see your friend and do it that way

Ladies i have a problem with people and this natural v ceaser thing, i know its a hot topic but i am not debating it now at all my problem is i am sick of people judging me!!! really I believe everyone is entitled to do what they want, but it seems everytime i say i am going natural and dont want any painkillers i get slatted for it and i am sick of it really, things like oh you are stupid, why do you want pain, blah blah i have my reasons but i keep feeling like i am in the wrong!? If someone wants ceaser i am all for it as that is their decision and what they want to do i will never bad mouth someone for it, if they want natural with epi go for it! But this is my feelings for me.... its so bad with family and friends that my DH and I have resorted to speaking to no one about it, its like they are obsessed. Last night he went to action cricket and i wasnt there but some of the wives were and were asking him will i do natural or ceaser and he was like natural and they are like well she is of course having a epi, so he just goes he has no idea as he didnt want to get into a whole argument or situation, etc.... WHY oh WHY are people like that!!! why cant every person just be praised for whatever they choose! why are people so judgemental. The other day someone i dont even know said to me are you having a ceaser so i said no natural and she was like WHY quite forceful so i jsut said because and she didnt like that and was like, seriously why, no seriously (even more forceful) why would you?! argh drives me mad why must i explain myself....

wow woops that went on far too long and sorry to moan so long but its really getting to me lately as i feel like everyone is on my case about it!

Baby cloths - I use the normal sunlight, as I can't find the baby one. And I use Woollite - sensitive for babies. This is what my sister used with her little girl and it worked. I am also not hand washing as I don't have the time or the strenght. My maid comes only once a week and she needs to get other things done instead of washing baby cloths by hand.

Eve as for the friend. I honestly don't know. But men should just grow up and get over it. Silly things like fishing rods, really!?

Hey ladies

I really need some advice please. Nothing to do with babies or pregnancies but everything to do with friends.

My best friend of over 10 years and I have grown apart and this is due to the fact that our husbands had a falling out over fishing rods (yes!). My DH smsed and called him to explain it was a misunderstanding but was ignored. I've been trying to patch things up between the two of them, via my friend, but it's not working because she isn't making much effort to find out if her husband still wants to be friends. It's all very childish but it's putting such stress on our friendship. I miss her so much. I don't get to see her anymore because she doesn't drive and her husband obviously won't bring her to my place, and I can't go there because he's there and I don't feel welcome. I'm really at my wits end and I don't know what to do anymore. Do I just leave the whole situation and possibly loose a friend? Or what?

I'm making the effort to try and sort things out but it feels like I'm the only one that's concerned about the situation.

Sorry to bother you with this shite but I don't know what more to do and it's stressing me out daily. I can't concentrate on studies, my tummy is in knots and it's just getting too much now.

Thanks

Eve

Ignore me testing my ticker again as I realised I wanted to show how old in weeks London is but also when I will see him cause sooner with c sec

Use Sunlight Baby Washing Powder the Blue Box and then Sta Soft Baby - specifically for babies, also Blue. Ive washed everything already in the washing machine and even tumble dried but for both machines on lightest cycles! All fine!

Nelria - I really hope I don't fail any subjects because I will just give up then and forget about ever getting a degree. DH is hoping to get a full time maid once Connor comes so if that happens, I will have some time to study and concentrate, hopefully!

Everyone I know is doing 10 modules a year and they have kids so I was assuming that I could do it too.

Washing clothes - I was also told to use Sunlight but no softner. I will wash them by hand first and then just chuck in the washing machine.

Managed to get the ticker sorted, the Help forum is really quick in response

Sorry Maureen cant help on that one, am really bad with presents, in most cases i get the person to tell me what they want......... ya i know it defeats the purpose.

yes ladies abt washing baba's clothes , which washing powder and staysoft can i use? Sunlight baby?, thats the only option i cld see.