PAMPERS JULY 2010

Oh Ash, we'll have to help each other with shedding these kilo's!

wrt bday, he wants to have a ben 10 thing ON the day!!! I tried reasoning with him, that we should wait for his sister to come home first, nd wait for school to start so his friends from school can also come, he just want the ben 10 thing on the day, his reason is that it won't be on the day...so there is a place in kyalami that does kids parties at a reasonable amount, saw an ad in one of my preggie mags, will check with them but then it'll be very small, just my nephews and niece, and some of the other kids from the complex... he is not a little boy anymore and apparently i need to respect that ( his own words)

I feel like making biscuits, eat somemores, whats the proper name again, if anyone has the recipe please help a sister out, getting bore out my skull at home...

Hi ladies hope everyone is well, just lazy in bed today,@Patty im done with my shopping and packing just waiting and waiting....
Maybe 2moro i must try going to the mall for a movie or sumthing

take care and a have a lovely week.

Vicky so glad u ok, gosh its the same thing as me, besides i didnt have any contractions.
shame man.

i am just taking things easy here, no need to get myself worked up and vicky sorry about hubby, sometimes they also just dont know how things like that get to us.
i also get upset etc when i am sick or whatever and rob expects me to just carry on as normal.
I am going to the gyne on thursday cant wait, hope all is ok with little man.

Namoicee, why doesnt he just have another party at school? it will save u all the stress and hassel as well as then he can have his ben 10 theme.

chloe this year wants a my little pony theme and she wants a actual pony as well. and i wont be working etc.... but i will cross that bridge when we get there.

i am contstantly craving sweet things and yes ladies,i eat it. i ahve come to terms with the weight etc and as we only have 6 weeks left, what the hell, i am gonan enjoy cos he will jst be on breast milk, hoping to breast feed for 4months so if "he" feels like it, why not LOL

Morning ladies.

vickyvdw you should have a sit-down with your DH and explain to him what you would like him to help you with. they are suppossed to volunteer but Ive learnt most times they wont.
take it easy and dont stress too much.

Mjabu why dont you pass time by going to the mall or something? or you are done preparing for LO's things?

Im so tired.

have a great day

morning

Juandre, love baby's room...I saw the rest on FB, stunning in deed! I've also lost my appetite but I've got such a sweet tooth these days. the only thing I ever put in my mouth is sweets and ice cold juice, and I have been drinking lots of sprite...

Newbie, sent you a friend request on FB... where do you get the energy from? gosh


VIcky, thinking of you, and don;t feel bad about getting frustrated when things go crazy.

hey Ash, is all well now? how are things going back at work?

Fay, it was very brave of you to go to the stadium, shame poor thing, and I know how people bump into you, very irritating...at least I'll have a few pics of the world cup to show.

Its my son's birthday next monday...I'll probably be too pregnant for a party, we sent party packs and cupcakes on the last day of school but I am only planning on taking him and my nephews and niece to wimpy for his bday, but it looks like he has other plans...he wants a ben 10 theme party,but I'm slowly getting him off that thought, he is very understanding though but i hate to disappoint him

Juandre': Ur baby room is beautiful. We are not having a separate baby room, keeping LG's cot in our room.

Faye: Hubby also bought tickets, but he will be going with our daughter - I cannot see myself at 33 weeks onwards standing in a line and getting pushed around. Sorry that your hubby will have to sell your tickets - but rather that than risj missing the most important event of your lives [the birth of a precious little one].

Patty: I am so envious of you - St Lucia!!!! We will be going to Cape Town in September, God willing. Our eldest daughter will be participating in the National Competition for drummies.

Newbie: Cleaning is so strenuous, how do you do it???? I have 6 weeks to go before 20 July 2010 and I don't have the energy. Please take it easy.

Vickyvdw: Sorry that you feel so flat, and yes, we are allowed to throw our toys out of the cot especially when there are no clean teaspoons around!!!! I hardly cook - maybe twice a week. But when I do I spoil them and hope that their stomaches and memories have a good relationship - 'cos i take a few days rest in between my cooking episodes.


I still haven't packed our bags - need to get myself pyjamas, bra's, pads and a few other things.

I'm supposed to be working until 2 July 2010, but I feel so tired already - hate the waking up in the morning.

hi everyone,

im back at work. the dr asked what type of work am i doing .. very stressfull, very strenuous???? so i said no i sit at my desk whole day and do paperwork. he said it was fine for me to return to work as long as i cut everything down and do everything slowly. no stress nothing strenuous.

well ladies my husband was so shocked when they said they admitting me cos of the proteins and ketones in my urine.. and ended up having contractions and going into preterm labour.. oh my god.. i was so scared. baby seems to be fine, still moving lots and apparently there is enough amniotic fluid around baby.
i think he was so shocked that he actually didnt know what to do.

anyway actuall hospital stay was okay was on a drip and monitored every hour. contractions eventually stopped.

when i got home , i spent hole day at home with kids by myself my husband had an appointment to have our tow bar fitted for the car. on saturday i was getting so annoyed cos there wasnt one clean spoon in the house and the washing hadnt been done.. i was so annoyed i think i threw my toys out of the cot. and my husband got really upset with me.. ended up with me in tears getting more contractions( but nope he left me to cry) anyway the house work got done but i was upset the whole weekend ( so much for no stress and strenuous activity) im so upsset with him , but i had to eventually go and suck up and appologise and make as though im the one who was wrong.. and i dont believe i was.. he knows how serious the situation could get... needless to say we are now talking but i still feel very hurt that things had to get to where it did.why should i have to beg. i dont know how many nights i ve stood cleaning till 9-10pm at night adn he is watching tv or playing games. the one time i honestly cant do it its a major problem.. yes i probaly handled the situation wrong and exaggerated the situation but for goodness sake i just feel as though he doesnt care. im trying to protect our baby. but at the same time still need to see that the house runs and that our other two are not affected.. they were upset seeing me crying.. i just couldnt stop myself and try to never cry infront of them.

i have under a month left at work , thank god.. go on leave from 12th july. i dunno if im gonna manage it.. my boses seem very understanding though.. shame they both phoned when i was in hospital.

i feel rather flat not health wise , emotionally. do you ladies think i was very wrong.>>>?? i know it takes to tango but i really expected more... i expected for help with out having to have the cold war re inacted. and the whole time all i wanted was him to take me in his arms and tell everything is gonna be okay. ( i was scared as hell)

anyway now that im online again i will read up on all the threads and respond a little later.

thanks for all your well wishes and prayers.