January 2010 mommies

Thanks for the advise Lollipop! I will try not to "verduidelik" too much. A day's leave or half day is perfect, depending on what time my appointment is.

Eish your husband is stubborn ne! That time of the morning i will sommer give him a klap if he wants to talk nonsence about stuff that doesnt concern him. Although I do get up at 5 in the mornng, but Im in a different situation!
And the fact that he just took T and left is such disrespect for you as a mother. You have the right to kiss your child goodbye regardless if you guys are fighting or not. I always say that children should not see nor be involved in their parents fighting. He obviously thought he would spite you by taking him while you were in the shower! I would have drove after him in my towel and kicked a dent in the door! But that's just me! The other night I asked BF to go and make a bottle for me while I change Bismarck maybe about 10 times and he just said hmmm, and in the end I did it myself while my child lay screaming next to him and he didnt move a musscle! Aparently he didnt hear him. As kak praat 'n siekte was ne! How can you not hear him? He is screaming next to you! But I left it and let it pass! But next time its cold water on his head I swear!

M2b So glad the interview went well, will hold both thumbs for you...I also live very far away from work (well about 30 kms but it takes forever with traffic, so I know it is difficult)
Just say that you have an appoitnment that you cannot change...no need to elaborate, just say it is personal...take a half day if you need to. Ons afrikaanse mense wil mos altyd verduidelik...moenie!

I must say hats of to you with Logan, cant be easy to raise a child with special needs, although I have found that children with Downs are so much more loving-dont know if that is true?
So glad that he is coping so well with having another sibling, and kudos to BF that he has taken Logan as his own...not alot of guys will do that (hang on to him Honey, you have a keeper!)

Something tells me that I am going to be the discipline enforcer in our house...although that is not a good idea cause I have a very short fuse

was so upset with DH today...we had a fight, cause it was his turn to get up for T during the night, but he doesn't wake up-so I must wake him...and then he took forever to take care of T...so he kept on crying/moaning (was so tempted to get up, but thought that I need to let him take care of it) so he gets back into bed (this was at 4:50) this morning and then he asked whether we shoudl get up and get ready for work...are you out of your ^&*()&* mind?
Then he wants to discuss my breast milk production-WTF? SO i said i am trying to sleep...so he got upset with me...this morning he took T while I was in the shower, cant describe the cold feeling I got when I got out of the shower and realised my child was gone...(his dad does take him with him every day-as he works at his parents home) but still, taking him without telling me and without giving me a chance to say goodbye?

Hey ladies,

sorry I just went MIA yesterday but I got a call for an interview. It went great!!! Only 2 of us are going for 2nd interviews next week and Im one of the two. So much closer to home and I still have to negotiate a salary, but the first step is done.The advertised salary was what I wanted so lets see! Dont know how Im going to get to go to that interview cause I have month end Tuesday and Boss is here next week... Help with excuses please! Sick??? perhaps?

Anyways, Annelize, Logan is coping very well and is very loving with Bismarck, but he is so small it looks like Bismarck is going to outgrow Logan very quickly. My nanny asked me this morning if Im giving Bismarck cereal cause she sees that the box is open. She seems to think he is too small for cereal hehehe, at least I have a nanny with brains!
Both my kids are just so cute! His visit went well as far as I know after a 3 month drama with him dad, getting another girl pregnant and then got engaged to her then she turned pshyco and he left her, turns out she is not pregnant. He is also still jobless so Im not getting maintenance for the last 3 months. USELESS!!!
BF is really good with both the kids. He treats them both the same. Logan is a bit bigger so he is a bit naughtier than Bismarck. But Logan listenes to him and ignores me. Someone has to do the dicipline thing cause its difficult for me to shout and give them hiding! BF also calls Logan "my seun" so they both get treated equally. He is great...........for now! hehehe
Sometimes I want to kill him and sometimes I just love him sooooo much! It wasnt always easy with Logan, especially not the part where he almost died of pheumonia but he has been so strong for the last 2 years. I raised him alone until BF and i moved in together. He is just such a special child and the apple of my eye!

Angel-sorry to hear that C is being difficult, hopefully it is just the teething.
Juanita, hang in there your days in purgatory is almost over.
nothing to report on this side, so busy at work dont have time to even pee, so I will be keeping a low profile...
have a good day mommies!

Hi everyone, 3rd last day at my old job went ok. Only stayed till 2. tmrw only staying till 1 as i have a hair appointment. Should be nice treat.

Angel, Only started giving Leandi some veggies last week. Only doing bout 2tbs a day. She seems to like the sweet potatoes and pumpkin and banana.

Hello Ladies,

Wow I' feeling rather tired today, had a bad night with Cayleigh. My Mom said she wasn't too niggly today but has had alot of poo nappies. She doesn't have a fever so don't think it's diarhoea, will just keep an eye on her. Think it's teeth related.

M2B - Glad you are feeling more positive about your relatioship!

Annalize - Hope your Mom's op goes well!

Juanita - can't wait to see pics of those earrings must be so cute!!

Liv - Sorry that Liam isn't a happy chappy.

Lolli - Good luck with the studying.

I haven't started Cayleigh on any solids yet. She still on breastmilk only.

Hope you all have a good evening. Hope I have a better night aswell. I'm almost off to bed.

Bye Lolli, I'm also on my way.
Lekke eve all.