Pregnancy after D&C

Chanm
Will say a prayer for your strength to go bravely with what happens with your pregnancy.
I think it's still sounding good with the heartbeat, etc!
Cathm
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Phoned my doc. He said the report from the other doc said everything is fine with the pregnancy. Doesn't look like the bleeding is affecting the pregnancy in any way. It could be coming from the placenta - which is lying at the bottom and this will move in the next 3-4 weeks. Or it could just be my cervix. When I put the Cyclogest in on Sat night it felt sore and I tried to move it but couldn't because it was too slippery! Maybe I hurt something??

Anyway he says absolutely no sex for the next 6 weeks. Not that we have anyway! And I had to have another HCG done now and another one tomorrow morning just to double check the count isn't goin down. If it increases even a bit things are looking good. But if it goes down in a day then i'll miscarry.

So please say a little prayer for my little bean and that the count goes up slightly!
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Oh Claire i am so so sorry!! Im so sad.

Claire
I'm sorry hon. I wish I could invent a pregnancy test that only came out positive once you had 3 months behind you AND it was a viable pregnancy! It's awful finding out (as I did too_) that you are 'pregnant' when in actual fact it's not viable and its not a conception that is meant to carried out full term - that's fine but to know that upfront would be nice! What helped me was that the gynae told me that at 7 weeks mine was a zygote still - not even a foetus - and it's just nature's way of saying, yes your body is really KEEN to get pregnant, so it did, but the egg just wasn't the right one. So *SNAPS* for your body for being so up for ti (that's what I also told myself) but it wasn't working with the right materials. I think you are going to have a strong healthy pregnancy in no time.
I know it's different for everyone and I am thinking of you and sending you a cyber hug.
Cath
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I am so so Sorry Claire !!!

This is such a sad news ... I really don't know what goes on is God's mind when he does these things !!

But like Lucy said , pl don't feel you are not destined to be a mom .... very soon your arms will be holding a healthy lil one .... stay strong honey ... U & DH are in my prayers

Claire i'm so so so sorry my friend. I know there's nothing we can say to make you feel better but we are here for you.

No Claire ! I can't believe it. I know that love and hugs right now are not going to cut it. I am so so so sorry. Please don't believe that being a mommy is not your destiny. You are young and FS will find a way around this. Take care my friend.
Lots andlots of love
L xx