hello ladies I found this new site and wanted to let you know that while I wouldn't go so far as to say I'm 'trying' to conceive, I am off the pill again and am 'open' to conceiving!
Quick background - I went off pill last Nov and fell pregnant right away. End of Jan discovered it was a blighted ovum. The waiting and messing around by an incompetent doctor/gynae was the worst. It was such a stressful experience that when I did get my period again after the D&C I went straight back on the pill and my DH and I decided that we'd concentrate for a while on being newlyweds.
We recently went on holiday and discussed the possibility of going off the pill and just seeing what happened and agreed it felt right.
My main fears are superficial (!) weight gain, discomfort (even though it was a BO it was SOO uncomfortable and horrible for me being pregnant) but I'm leaving it in God's hands.
I wanted to let you ladies know as you were HUGELY supportive during the horrible time of trying to find out what was going on (by the time the D&C came it was actually a relief!!!) also I've been following your posts every few weeks and LUCY!!! This may be it for you I will say a little prayer! Just remember God gives us what we need when we need it - and it sounds like you're going to be getting a BFP! Good for you!!!
Anyway, I'll probably lurk more than I post but I wanted to say hi to all you special ladies - and GIRLY!! Aren't you great so far along in your pregnancy - I see still stressing a bit

but isn't that natural hey I'm thrilled for you it's going so well!
For all the ladies who have fallen pregnant and who are still trying - I think that being a mom / expectant mom is tough but if not us, then who!
MUCH LOVE
CATHM