Pregnancy after D&C

Thanks Klk !!
Sorry about the pity party .... you ladies must dread me going into my 2WW every time.

Thanks for being so kind I'll get there, one day I may even learn how to deal with the waiting game a bit better!!

I keep meaning to ask how the monkey party prep is going?

Big Big Big hugs Lucy!!! I really really hope that this is your month.
All you girls mean so much to me and seeing any of you down, brings me down too.

Hey Claire
You are spot on, an emotional woes today and the scary thing is I am only a couple of days into my 2WW. I am totally with you on having a plan, as a scientist by training I need to rationalise everything which is just not possible in the TTC game. I like SMEP as it makes perfect sense , the problem is I don't get +OPK's so it is guess work for me. Then I go and O early and throws all my plans off. It is sooooo frustrating. But I am also frustrated as every month I have been close enough and there doesn't seem to be a logical reason for not getting a BFP. Klk kindly spoke to our gynae and she said there is unlikely to be something wrong as I have already conceived. Oh I know you only have 20% chance every month but on a down day like today I feel like saying blah blah blah. I think the stress is piling up as well as everybody is starting to ask now if I am preggie again, I mean just about everyone I know.
Sorry about the vent. I'll be fine in a moment. Mom and Dad coming for a braai so that will cheer me up!
Thanks for virtually listening!!

Claire i cant believe that you are already 9 weeks...My goodness time is flying for you already

Im glad DH and i had the fight and talk that we did, things were said from both of us that the other had no idea of so as of today i am going to become the person that my husband fell in love with as i have changed and have only now realised how much i have.

Lucy - big hugs to you girl - you sound very down in your post which is totally understandable and I am not critising only concerned. ttc is such an emotionally draining process. keep positive and have a plan for each cycle :)I will go look at your chart tonight thx for asking - I am fine I have had no spotting (all 3 previous pregnancies I did) and its only 2 sleeps to my gynae appointment - she was in greece for a month so she will be so surprised to have me in there and 9 weeks already. I was 5 dpo when I last saw her and she said oh af is on the way - lol.

anyway have a lovely evening

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHAN ! Wishing you a year of joy and happiness Love how high your count is ... congrats.

Claire and Angi - I am here and fine. TRYING to chill about this ttc thing. FF has picked O up for CD12 on that day I got a darkish OPK but not as dark as control. I only filled that in after FF already said O had happened as I didn't want to influence it. So I have stuck to SMEP so far .... just tomorrow night. I did miss CD8 but DH was asleep and I was still spotting so didn't think it was serious. I had VERY sore O pains on friday (CD12) so I think FF is spot on but FF is saying that my chance of BFP is only good and not very high like last month - so feeling a bit bummed and down

Jelly, Sue and Isha - Hi

Shazz - less than 3 weeks ..... that is so exciting.

Klk - glad things are a bit better with DH. You wouldn't enjoy the good times withoout the bad, so hopefully this was just to make the good times brighter.

Claire and Chan - so how do you feel? Please share

Angi - Sorry gynae is so booked up. I really hope you get an earlier date. Well in the meantime practice will make perfect

I cant chat long, ive reached my cap so on my phone.

CHAN WOW CONGRATS!!!! i wish i had logged on sooner to see your BFP! all the prayers for you and your baba!!!

Vix so nice to see you again!

Sal your still looking great!

Angi sorry about af cow

Klk your a fantastic mother these oopsies happen!

I think thats everything!

Just 20 days to go for me whoohoooo, still have not got my photies back... grrr