file Pregnancy after D&C

14 years 11 months ago #211178 by Dinky
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Morning Ladies!

Es your kids are just too adorable! Its good to have date night every now and then. What movie did you see? Little Mia is a real fighter hey! Shoo! I am sure everyone is taking strain emotionally and financially but she is in our thoughts and I have no doubt that she will pull through!

klk Connor is just too handsome! Love the pic with the chocolate :-) Good luck with the next cycle and the FS.

Angi* the name game - not easy! We can agree on girls names but don't ask us to agree on a boys name - near impossible!!!

Belaine tiles are definately more kid friendly than carpets and you'll see the disruption will be worth it in the long run. Sounds like you are having a tough time @ work - hope it gets better. Good luck @ the dentist today - hope you don't need that root canal!

AFM: AF is starting to pack her bags - phew. Otherwise nothing else interesting.

Have a wonderful day!

MC 22 June 2011

LG - Emily - c/sec 18 July 2012

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14 years 11 months ago #211167 by Joybaby
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Hi my friend

My heart broke when I heard your news yesterday. I have been thinking about you all day today as well.

You'll have good days and bad. It may not hit you immediately but somedays you may have mixed emotions and it helps to vent. This group was my saving grace after my missed MC.
I was 9w when I started miscarrying, but baby was only measuring 7w by then.
As with you, I hadnt had much symptoms and started having a feeling something was up.
That's rather hectic about the nucheal fold! And in some way, it helps to have answers.

It's only when it happens to you or someone close to you that you realise how common it is. 1 in 6 or thereabouts. That's rather common!

My gynae advised me to wait until my first AF arrived before trying again. I didnt go back onto a pill. Although it did take a while for my period to regulate itself again.
Some gynae's recommend more time for emotional healing. But you must do what's best for you. And meanwhile get lots of hugs and kisses from little G.

Shout if you need anything at all. A loss is a loss no matter how soon. Lots of love my friend.

First angel resting 25/06/2009 stayed with us a short 7 weeks but we still miss you.

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14 years 11 months ago #211161 by DebbieF
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Hi Bronz

My heart goes out to you , please feel free to vent , cry get angry and all the other emotions in here.

These ladies are really the most awesum bunch I have ever come across and it is
wonderfull to share with ladies that have been there and done that and fully understand.

Take all the time you need and know we are here for you.

BIG HUGS

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14 years 11 months ago #211159 by Bronz
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Hey Ladies

I have been in 2 minds about joining this thread, but thought it may be helpful to have a support network of those who have been through it. Thank you to those who invited me. I hope I am not in

Ok so my story. Went to the OBGYN yesterday and she did the normal check but there was no heartbeat. She checked from all sorts of angles. I was 9.3weeks and baba was measuring 9.1weeks so it died two days ago when my morning sickness had too. The nucheal fold was large (she could already see it), so large possibility that there was a chromosomal abnormality. I am in a sense grateful if it was that, that we weren't faced with a difficult decision at the 12 week scan and that nature took its course.

I went for the D&C today. It went very routinely, I woke up very emotional and crampy. Had a good sit down on the floor and cry when I got home, but all better for the most part now.

I always thought this kind of thing only ever happens to someone else. But I must be honest I had a funny feeling this time. I told the world I was preg the first time at 8 weeks, this time my gut said wait till 12 weeks.

I guess the next step is too go on the pill and wait 3 months....

I must say one good thing about being 'off-duty' today was that DH had to deal with the poo down the toddlers legs. :laugh:

Bronz X

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14 years 11 months ago #211069 by belaine
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hi my Friends

klk Connor is so beautiful, i love those eyes.

Angi how are you feeling? Any cravings or MS my friend is 14weeks and her MS just started. I love the name Ezelle is different.

Mom2B how are you doing with your to do list before the holiday? Enjoy that nail course and we want pictures of that hair do.

Es thanks for the pics he is so cute.. I hoped you had a lovely date night!

Dinky glad you are feeling better I was also very glad about Af this month but won't be so happy about her arival next month!! Also not sure what I will use especially with the tiling. I'm still looking for that digital thermometer to take temps. hopefully we will share our good news together we aiming for how many bfp next month??

Thanks Lucy also think everything will be worthwhile in the end the sooner they get started they can finished luckily dh have taken leave for Monday to Wednesday I'm going to try for Thursday and Friday if only my boss will be in the office so that i can ask him

Debbie still hoping for that bfp hope you get that well deserved night rest. Did you find you a outfit for sunday?

Chan glad to hear about Kade sleeping.

Feeling frustrated for my boss that thinks I know everything he keeps passing me forms that I must fill out that he gets from head office the only problem is that i haven't got a clue how to do it and he is not here. luckily the other boss said one of those is not our work to fill out but the other managers.

i'm still helping the other lady with her work gets me through the day! i'm looking forward to the end result of the tiling me and dh must start packing some of the things.
Dh still don't have a clue about the full body massages on saturday I'm so looking foward to it and believe that will give us energy for the BD but I will make sure of some redbull for dh.

I'm due back at the dentist tomorrow hopefully root canal not needed as the antibiotics helped a lot.

It was so nice having our neighboors kids over last night one thing is for sure glad we are getting tiles carpets is hard to clean especially with little kids. They were already bathed just needed to feed them and all they wanted to do was to draw and colour. The like giving hugs and kisses all the time. Charlene (5) just wanted to play with a teddy that is her baby you should have seen that but the most adorable thing was when dh lied on the couch with his eyes closed she took a blanket and covered him and sat next to him... Ag moeder

Take care and have a wonderful day!!!

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14 years 11 months ago #211062 by klk2678
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Sorry Es, only saw your post now about Mia, shame poor little thing. How very scary for her parents.

Angi, Anoushka sounds so German :)

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14 years 11 months ago #211018 by Angi*
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Esmarie thanks for the pis, you had gorgeous kiddies, gerhardt is getting so big...pray Mia recovers...

Klk lovely pics Connor stays a gorgeous little boy...

Debbie FX your temps stay high and you get a BFP...

Dinky may next month bring you good news...

Lucy icw names I like the names Azelle and Shaydeen
Riaan likes Anoushka...He suggested instead of Azelle we say Ezelle so will see what name we agree on...

M2B enjoy ur trip looking forward to all the pics you gonna upload hint hint

Sue, Jodon where are you all

2 precious angels in heaven...we think and miss you everyday
BFP! EDD 11 March 2012
Thank you Lord for trusting us with your special angel
Surprised us with her presence 23 Feb 2012
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