Hi mommies.
Shhooo , maar you guys can talk jong.
Eih, I only caught here and there, but as you know they relationship troubles are my Forte.
As for the appraisals and bousses , same thing here, why do I get punished for making a baby, surely there must be something somewhere in the legislation that opposes that, must contact HR, regtig.
WC, NTOKO, and all the other mommies , what you are feeling is normal, and I think its worse since returning to work, There is just not that urge or the enegry to cuddle, touch or whatever. Everything is depending on you, house, food, shopping, baby and then HIM as well, so it takes its toll on you as a person, (still is on me), but mums, please , I dont think the SUPERMOM facade excists.
We all need help, cauze even myself I find it hard to strike a balance.
I mean who feels like nookie after making bottles and cleaning and cooking and , and and.... which ia where we make the mistake, coz we have to kepe these men satisfied coz its very easy to get misled , since some of us are not the same bodywise and are scarred and feeling unattractive.
Like Nels said, try enticing him with new dishes, ( always works for me, ) even though they from Woolies, set the table , I mean baby sleeps early then ypou have the night for youryourselfs, the only probs the n would be waking up for the night feed after you had marathon sex and a bottle of cousins behind you

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SO JA,