Soweto Ladies

Hello Ladies

ElamsMom I dont have any advice for you but really hope you guys sort things out

Ntoko umenzani uAyanda kodwa huh? Rekindle the flame just not sure how

Kganya I have no advice but maybe going away together and just being the old couple you used to be might be a start

Hayi hayi Vamo phela that is my son in law phumi must find herself another boy to chase hahaha oh no seem like you raising a tough boy there, does he still have his beautiful hair? And where is the pic??? Lwandle and Kamva sounds perfect

NozzyNew LOL

@ Vhamo please re post the pic.

Today is happy 6 months to Phelo

Good'ay to you all Jozi Gals

It feels good to be back and I hope so far the year is great for you and LOs.
I last logged in Ntoks was away and I can see Lill Phumi is now a big Gal (surely I have missed a lot) Please paste a bigger pic of her Ntoko, I can tell from a distance that she so chubby and pretty.

How are my other son's makotis' doing! Kamva are you still Lwandle's 1 Queen or should I start negotiations with Phumi now

My son is now16 months Gals and naughtiness seems to be growing with him. He hits me and I have exhausted the list of things to stop him from this bad habit. He will hit me and feel bad and come to hug and kiss...what a manipulator!!!!!!!! Hey don't take this wrong Kamva...he will never lay a hand on you

Here he is:

Morning ladies

I thought I was the only one going through this,and yes Elamsmom the best thing is to be quiet cause one end up saying horrible things.

This morning I said horrible things DH and there'e a point where I really don't care what happens and I even told him that,and poor him he was just quiet listening to me making noise early in the morning,not that he's innocent he will say something that will just trigger that button.

Truthfully speaking I really don't want to be touched and I feel like I need my space just to be alone with the baby,he needs to go away for month or so

Hi ladies.sorry to barge in on your thread.

Ntoko, I responded to yo post on the other thread as well.

I am at a point where I know that I/we DESPERATELY need help or else our marriage is going to be VERY shortlived (bn married for 4 months! together for 5 years before that).

I am going to phone a psychologist today. The scariest part for me is that I have become numb and indifferent. I do not even have the energy to talk/fight/try to sort things out. It's almost like I have subconsiously given up on us and am hoping that we can at least co-exist. he basically does his own thing & I do mine. It irritates me that we have to share a car cos then we are forced to interact. My attitude has become "I'm sure other people get by this way, and so can I" but that is not a life!

I am also afraid to talk/fight cos the last few fights we have had have resulted in me saying HORRIBLE things that I can't take back now and that's partly why we are where we are. But two wrongs don't make a right and i have tried to make it up to him (he is not innocent either!) but it's like he feels he is the most aggrieved one. I am tired of trying.

It breaks my heart actually but I don't know what to do.

Kganya - Bd always want to talk about it and i feel like i talk about it i will end up saying hurtful things, so i just keep quiet.

Hello Moms

Happy Thursday!!!!!!!

Ntoko Girl, you are not alone.I also don’t feel like him touching. Worse scenario – he would talk about it & I would change the topic .

Please ladies, give advice on how to rekindle the spark.