@Kaytee, its ok sisi...u not rubbing it in at all, yes Men do cheat, I'd say MOST, dont wanna say ALL
@Jade...I love my hubby to bits he is my life too..I mean Ive been with him 4 10 yrs, we've bn thru so many things in life together, we've grown together and achieved a lot together, but believe me ONE thing I will never make a mistake of is putting him 1st. And by saying this I dont mean to sound sour or think you are crazy if you put yours 1st...
We are human beings and we are born to differ. Its the 2nd time I find out he's cheating...I was so torn the 1st time I found out. He is such a sweet, caring, loving father, always there no matter what. And the last thing I would have expected was that he would cheat...so when I found out the 1st time, I opened myself to possibilities, that he was only human...always thought he was diff from other men, but that led me to see they are all the same...some better than others though.
So this time around, I'm ANGRY at myself for not picking up anything, but I must say I'm not shattered at all. Honestly ladies, Im fine, even he doesnt believe it, he's called me like 10 times already, and the more I tell him I'm busy, will talk at home, and I dont even have an angry tone, the more he calls me, jerrrrr he must just leave me alone, coz Im doing just fine. I asked him, what would he rather have seen me drowning in tears???
Ladies Im fine, obviously not as if nothing is wrong, Im dealing with it the way I see fit, but he's worried coz it aing nothing like I dealt with it the 1st time.
Jade Im soooo loving Tay's hair...woooow wish Amahle had hair...