Feb-May 2011 Mommies

hi everyone!!

kimika your pics are so cute!!!!!
re the ?leaking....
I am sure i was just sweating as I had a panty liner on since then and it is dry.

kaylae glad you and DH have managed to talk a bit as i said, i know it's not only him...that's why i am thinking of therapy for myself. i asked him to join, he said no. so i'll just go alone.

hi everyone else!!!!!!

Morning all!

Joli, I havent even filled in the forms yet! They never sent them because she said "she would rather make a phonecall to explain everything than sending the email". Now Im thinking she would rather make the phonecall and putt me off the whole issue So I havent even gotten as far as filling in the form.. want to make sure first.

I didnt feel a thing last night! So Im thinking baby mustve moved or something and thats why I felt it so clearly Friday night and Saturday. Since then nothing! With my son I felt him at 16wks and then nothing until about 21wks. Gynae and 4D lady said my placenta was in front and prevents you feeling the movement and kicks. Hope its not the case again!

ooo Enjoy your gardening!!

Morning ladies. How's everybody doing?

I'm feeling a bit better today.

Kimika - nice pics. Pietertjie is getting so cute man! Tell me - did you fill in ALL the codes on the PMB form?? So we need to fill in all the codes we wants them to cover?? I am jealous that you can feel the baby. I'm struggling to feel movement now. Just every now and again I 'think' I'm feeling something!

MistyMom - how's the new job going and are you eating again??

Tazzy - your tummy is quite small, but definately a preggy belly. I also just feel so HUGE! And I must say most people who see me tell me I'm HUGE for 13 weeks. With Kayla you could only see that I was pregnant from about 20 weeks.

Meags - you are brave. I would never have survived Joburg day. I'm such a 'wuss'. We had a braai on Saturday and I just couldn't wait for everybody to leave. I just wanted to be alone, had a headache etc. etc. Sorry to hear about your hubby problems. But men don't change. He won't just change now that you are preggars. If he's been like that before, maybe that's just the way her is. But I do hope that he will stop smoking and that he will help with the baby! And with regards to the leaking hmmmmmm you do have lots of discharge when you are preggars. I used to carry spare panties in my bag. This time it's not so bad as yet. Or you can try panty liners. But do mention to your gynae re your open cervix. Rather safe than sorry.

Kaylae - sorry to hear about your hubby problems as well.

All the other ladies - Have an awesome day!

Oh ya, I bought some strawberries, lavendar, thyme and a couple of other plants so this coming weekend I will plant them all in the garden. Can't wait!

Wow Joli How i love your belly,very beautiful and yammy

Meags-surely at 11 weeks you can see some developments but I am bigger than you at 9 weeks oh that belly ring can cause you problems when the stomach starts stretching,I regret ever having one,mine on my 1st pregnancy stretched so much and afret birth looked like I have a mouth on the belly coupled with stretchmarks that makes it look like mastache .as for your cervix indeed talk to your gynae,my sister have that problem and in the 2 pregnancies the gynae stitched it up as he said it can open when the child gets bigger and causes a miscarriage.ACT FAST

Kimika-your kid is adorable.

Know this is the wrong post but Meags spoke to DH last night about his irresponsible nature and him being selfish and he said I am pushing him away by my mood swings he does want to be supportive but I am making it impossible.and I told him what makes me resent him more,we talked and I found out that both of us are to blame and now we want to mend even though we both do not know where to start but we will get there.he just said i must not expect alot from him he will dop what he got to do and he will be my birth partner again .he said even when the baby was not planned that's not the reason to be both bitter we need to embrace it and love it.We will however take it one step at a time

Ok uploading is taking forever, but here are some pics of all my children

The old boy: Kimi 7yrs. He is the sweetest cleverest and such an old softy! His only lifely ambition is trying to sneak into our bed at night Oh and he loves to swim and play ball.



And mommy: Mika 2yrs. Ok she is utterly crazy and wild, but still lives just to be with us and please us. And she loves chasing birds



Daughter: Loula 1yr. Yes mommy and daddy had an oopsie She is actualy my Dads dog. Very sweet girl!



And my little guy. Playing in the dirt

Ok just a quick chat, I want to go bath and try feel my little bean again ..

Meags, ooo thats def the start of a bump The 11wks one is def a bit fuller, i agree!

And yeah Im super excited that Ill be 15wks already this week!! Im just wishing the time will fly for my scan next week so I can finally get some gender answers!!! Ive been such a good girl keeping patient while Im soooooo curious!! Once I know I can settle down and enjoy every second because from 20wks the time just flies!!

Ok Ill try be brave tomorrow and ask hubby for a pic.. I guess if it werent for baby the fat roll wouldnt be moving so its really fair to say we show even though its more fat than baby

As for the leaking of fluid.. it might just be discharge.. you do tend to get a bit more during pregnancy. But if you are really worried then cant you get hold of those strips that they use to detect amniotic fluid? Or ask your gynae when you go next week, if you can wait that long

Lucy, glad ms is better now! Its really a horrible feeling hey! The photies went okayish My crazy wild girl just wont sit still so its really hard to get her in a photo.. and the black makes it so much worse!! And my camera suuuper sucks So there are some amazing shots THAT BLURR Ill try upload some after my bath.. but beware.. they are not what your used to .. as in Joli's standards!! hehe

Emsmom, your baby will be fine!!! Your just lucky to not have to battle conceiving So just relax, the scan is going to be awesome!!! Just remember to come share as soon you can!!

Rakker, also added your details, but on the page 1 list. I also changed your date to 2 May, let me know if you change it later on

Hi Leroux!! I also lost my posts that day.. try and put your piccie up tomorrow! But Im very glad you were able to see your little bean Those internals are awefull but next time will be better !! Good luck with that damn ms! xxx

Joli, was wondering if you were ok! Hope you get better soon!!! Wow what a pretty pic and wow you were right, your belly is big And you are so small.. My belly is almost the same size but Im a bit taller than you and you can see mine is more fatty than yours Hope you feel better soon!

Ok so my short post turned out to be quite long hehe.. but it was so good to see a lot of chatting going on! Its no fun when nobody is around Ill pop in later again .

Tazzy, I will definitely speak to the gynae about the cervix as I'd rather have the stitch put in as a precaution than have any problems...

I have a panty liner on and it's dry so I'm guessing I was just sweating at coffee...