Hi all,
HAPPY B.DAY GML
Thx for the well wishing....
I'm much better... my stomach is ok, no more dressings and well... I'm alive, I still have pain on my right side, but I've been driving my moms car last week for the first time and this week 2ce... slowly getting there....
Morey was just under for kg with birth and now he's 6.2kg...
Sah & GML... I am a mother of 4 kiddies too, I do not agree with Kitty (sorry no offense and I must say I'm so happy we all have our own methods) But leaving your kid to cry, is just not for me, I wouldn't be able to do it...
GML our sons have the same sleeping patren, and I know you tired, but this passes so fast that by the time he is one you not even gonna remember the sleepless nights.
I have to admit yes I get tired too, and I was in pain for a very long time, but I'm not going to let Morey cry... I have ruby who's in school and she will never forgive me if I do a thing like that to one of her brothers and sister... I did it to her once when she was just under 2years, and still she has not forgotten it... she said spending that hour in the room made her feel like I hated her... and I'll never do that again.
With Morey I pick him up and I'll sit on my bed and hold him till he sleeps again, some nights when I really can't stay awake I'll leave him in the cot to drink... but he has never really gotten a chance to scream lol coz Hailey will run to him and shout at me baby the baby is crying he's calling you mommy...
I up untill today has 4 amazing kids. They know I'm there, coz as a mom even when I use to work my kids come first, I can't handle kids that cry and thank God I haven't yet had one that will cry and cry and cry...
I know Kitty's way WORKS it does work, my sister did it and so did my friend... but when I look at their kids and mine, there's a big difference....
I believe the kids didn't ask to be here you planed them you wanted them and having to be there for them is all you have to do for the rest of their lives...
Maybe I changed a bit after almost dieing... but my kids are so muture for their ages, it's nice...
Another tip instead of watching tv (my kids and I play games) our fav game is words.... and it's easy sothat all ages can join
Anyway I'm always finding myself writing essays lol....
Oh pls for those of you who have FB pls invite me MONIQUE DE KLERK I'm the one holding timone the meer cat....
Love to all the baba's and hope you all well....
FF