terrible twos times two.....

Ai Steph - jy het niks verkeerd gedoen nie! Om 2 kids te he 'n jaar uitmekaar is nie maklik nie!! My kids is meer as 4 jaar uitmekaar en ek sukkel soms. Ek het ongelukkig nie veel raad nie, maar wat ek wel gedink het terwyl ek lees, is dat jy baie guts het om twee kleintjies saam te vat winkel toe! Ek vat baie min altwee my kinders saam as ek winkels toe gaan en NOOIT as ek gaan shopping doen nie. Ek sal dit net waag om Kayla saam te vat, maar sy is darem al 7. Kan jou man nie na hulle kyk terwyl jy die shopping doen nie. En kan hy nie bietjie na hulle kyk terwyl jy jou hare of naels of miskien net 'n koppie koffie gaan drink sonder die kids nie. Jy het alleen tyd ook nodig.

'n Mens verloor baie vriende as jy kids het en hulle het nie kids nie. Probeer bietjie meer uitkom en vriende maak met ander mammas - miskien mammas van die forum etc.

Sterkte vriendin. As jou girlies ouer raak sal dit makliker raak. Hoe ver bly jou ma van jou af? Gaan slaap die kids partykeer oor by haar?

hi there ladies,

i seriously need some help... i feel like i am loosing my head.

I have always been a straight forward person either white or black no grey area....

But lately i feel im in that grey area, i feel so depressed with times, so bad that i cant stop crying....

I have two girls aged 2,1/2 and 1,1/2 years,
and these girls are getting me down....

I love them a lot, but sometimes i cant handle the situation.

My mom asked me to seek help with psychologist, because i need to learn hoe to handle them and to control myself.

the eldest is so naughty sometimes and when i talk to her she doesnt listen, then monkey see monkey do and i have double trouble and double the headache.

I cant go shopping cause these two are just terrible and all the people stare when i discipline them, so much that i leave everything and leave

i feel like a terrible mother and terrible person. I have never been a depressive person, but im very close to loosing my marbles.

all of my friends kinda have their own lives and we never get together anymore. I feel locked up because i cant talk to anyone and i feel that if i do, they are judgmental.

please help, i need some advice and someone who can relate.

What have i as a mother done wrong???