M/C..dealing with the Loss of our unborn angels...

Jo-C thank 4 ur words of comfort n encouragement..we feel ur love..
@Sam I'm very sorry for ur loss dear,I guess its worse wen uv already felt the movements n heard the heartbeat..2friends of myn we're in the same situation u cn even c the sex n who the. Baby looks like...I deeply sorry n I hope this thread helps u heal«Hugs»
@ justine I agree with u I'm very much hoping we'll b opening or joinin one of those threads..I can feel ur pain too..n hope u becoming stronger each day..there r greater things still to come for us..

@Hayley thanks for letn me know abt the appointment but its a bit far from now so I'll definately let u know...n get to that site as soon as I can ,I shud also prepare a box of tissues..
@thanks Lorief n congrads on a successful 2nd pregnancy..I'm not really sure we're Bryanston is but will look it up..
@Cornel oct seems so far but then tym really flies hey..

Nayeela ur right this is somthing u cn never forget..bcos for the rest of ur life thel always b that thing @ the back of ur mind that u we're expectin b4 n lost it..n I don't think u crazy at al cos with my 1st I was so devastated I had to c someone n thy told me writin down ur feelings is healthy cos even wen ur alone ul always hv ur pen n paper ther..plus we al deal with it in different ways,so it k as long as u heal

Yho!! Ladies I'm so overwhelmed by ur the responce..I also thank God for giving me the wisdom to open this thread..,I can c its quickly growing n that's so wonderful..now I'm gona read ur posts one by one n respond..I can't blv iv bn away for a few moments n to find so many to go through ..wow! Let me get started..

Hi BD,
I dont have much to add only to say that I also 'fell off the Aug/Sept 2011' thread... so its all pretty raw still for me too. still i feel better this week than last and i felt better last week than the week before... and you will too.
*big hugs* to you and lets hope we can find ourselves on a new thread again soon... Nov/Dec/Jan/Feb... gotta believe it will happen eventually!

Hi Ladies,

I am so sorry for your losses!

I lost my first baby at 8 weeks with no explanation and i was shattered... it took me +- a 1 1/2yrs to get pregnant again and everything was going well until 27 weeks i went into preterm labour and was in hospital for 3 weeks they tried to stop it, put a mc donald stitch in but it was not ment to be my little girl passed on at birth.We every test done after that to see if something was wrong with me or DH and they found nothing, we took a short break from ttc and then I got pregnant with my son at 14 weeks they put a mc donald stitch in and i was monitored very closely and we made it Logan was born on the 19 Jan 2010.

thank you for starting this thread because even though I did get my happy ending i still think of my stuggle everyday I am still dealing with my loss and its been nearly 2yrs and soon we will be ttc again so all my worries are back and all the what ifs...i am so scared and sometimes wonder if i should maybe only just leave it a 1 child because i have my angel now.

So sorry for your loss. The d&c thread is perfect! They are so supportive.

I had my first mc last year on new years day. I was devistated. Especially cause I have 2 children, and that made me feel safe. I was pregnant again soon, but ended with a d&c at 10w, after I was diagnosed with a bo earlier, and the meds didn't work.

Both were very bad emotionally. And I have never told any of moomie this before, but I have found my 'reason' for the second one. With first mc we were still on ma, but with the bo not. I believe that that happened to prepare me for having our next baby in our government hospital. Witch is a great hospital by the way. Thats just what I am thinking, because with a bo there was never a baby.

It really does get better. I will never forget what I went through, but you learn to live with it.