M/C..dealing with the Loss of our unborn angels...

Claire ur welcome deaar..n yes its so lovely to c all the love n care flowing already...I had no idea that so many of us go throught this..n Hubby is tryn to b strong but its clear that I'm stronger than him @ this point..but he's tryin his best..n seing someone is exatly wat we need
@Hlise thanks very much..
Hayley..I cudnt hv said it beter

BD, i cant wait to see that positive pregnancy test again... And no, its most certainly not easy to relax BUT we gotta try...

And i also believe in everything happens for a reason and we might not know what the reason is... I also believe God will NOT put you through something you cant handle...

There are bigger and better things waiting for you friend

Hlise, thank you for the link

Hallo girlies. I wish you all the best in healing. Everyboy has their own way of grieving. I stumbled accross this website the other day: wwww.bornsleeping.com and I though the name was so appropriate.

Good luck to you all. xx

Hayley dear we r gona b ok,n once u c that positive test u won't blv it..ul hv bigger concerns then like stayin pregies..I guess one can't really relax..

Cornel,dats the spirit..never giving up,cos I blv it rains b4 u c a rainbow..so slowly but surely wil b there..as 4 the ticker I hvnt had tym to remove it but will do it soon

Blackdiamond - thanks hun You can already see by the warm responses that we really do understand and care a lot about each other.

Hubby and I went for extensive genetic blood testing - no abnormalities, I really suggest an FS because I feel that 2 losses in a row indicates there may be underlying issues. For me - took uterogestan (Like Anje) and ecotrin (blood thinner) in 1st trimester and I switched to clexane (to prevent blood clots) injections from 8/9 weeks once heartbeat seen. I only stop at 35 weeks.

Give yourself time to grieve - that raw and numb pain you describe - I do not think ever goes away completely. I remember having an imprint in my mind of holding my own baby and talking to him/her and that image kept me going when I was having my darkest hours. How is your dh holding up ? big hugs to you!!!

AnjeD..ur words hv touched me n give me a sence of hope n strenghth,I'm sure other ladies wud agree..I was told the same thing abt the ms thus the hospital ddnt offer to do any tests yet cos according to them its normal esp in the 1st trimester..but who wants to experience it again?no one..
We're is ur specialist situated?I'm looking for a specialist n he seems gud n if possible wud like to c him..
N congradulations,u r a strong woman..n thanks to hubby for being supportive too...
This is too much of a coinsidence..cos I'm also lookin for a beter n less stressful job..

BD,yes like all the ladies says.....DONT GIVE UP HOPE!!!!!!!!!!!
This 3 mc made me a stronger person......... I know that when we are back in the SA I will receive my GIFT!!!!!!!!!! God sees everything and He will provide when the time is right......

I see you still have a ticker?