Hello everyone.
I must say, i am also struggling to fall pregnant for over a year now.
I have a son who is three years old (Kade) and i had no problems falling pregnant with him, first time actually. i had an op - appendix removed and a dnc (to remove endo) and a laparoscopy and thats when i fell pregnant with him.
We have been trying ever since my boy turned two and no luck for months on end. i went for a check up at the gynae as i was confused at to what was going on, after months and months of trying we were disappointed every month

Not cool.
I found out that i had this huge cyst ect and was out on meds to try and get rid of the cyst, that month i fell pregnant and found out by surprise actually, i went for my check up to see whats happening with the cyst and we saw a tiny little dot there, was like 3 weeks preg or so. I had finished the course of meds and everything was fine, but doc told me that he wants to see me every week to keep an eye on the cyst, i didnt think much about it. as i was actually excited.
a few days after seeing the doc (about 7/8 weeks) i went for another check up and i had a scan and the nurse looked very worried, i immediately saw the cyst was gone and that the fetus had not grown since i was there last, i started crying staright away! i knew what had happened, the gynae came in and told me that the fetus had died, i was shattered, i couldnt stop crying, as small as what the fetus was i was in love. then i saw another gynae- his partner, he gave me tablets to insert so that i can miscarry. as i actually didnt miscarry or anything, no pain, no bleeding nothing!
The next day i was booked in to have a D&C and when i went for my 6 weeks check up i was told there was nothing wrong ect, they tested the tissues and everything was fine.
I was told to wait two periods and to try again, this was in February, and so no luck since then, in June i decided to find another gynae and get a second opinion, as i felt this gynae was useless.
I went to see this new gynae, and guess what another operation, endometriosis and two cysts one on each ovary,the cyst grew on my colon. i was devastated that i had to go for another operation, as i had one in February and i was hoping that all would be sorted.
Still no luck in falling pregnant since June 2011, i was talking to a mother from my sons creche as she also struggled to fall pregnant, after taking clomid, she fell pregnant and now has two healthy little girls.
I went to the doc and asked for clomid, this is the first time taking clomid and i am hoping that it will work.
The problem is i never have a regular cycle, and never know when i am ovulating. so its always a guessing game.
I am glad that we can all relate somehow.
Wow! that was nice to get off my chest