Trying for a 2016 baby

@ninies - Thank you for the advice, I have thought about that, will talk to my hubby and see if we can have him tested as well

@ninies - I usually O on CD13/14, will BD in anyway!! I pray the spotting stays away and that u get a surprise BFP this cycle How wonderful would that be I won't get ur hopes sky high though, but definitely rooting for you that it was IB!

@blou sonneblom - Yes OPK's are costly, but it could be worth it just to confirm and put your mind at ease that you do ovulate. Good luck with the appointment today. Just some advice from me:
Have your DH spermies tested aswell. We did not because we already have a son, and I always thought it was my work stress that caused our infertility. After about 7 cycles on Clomid we decided to do IUI and when DH left his sperm to be washed we found out that he has very very low sperm count. So that explains our inability to conceive. But did we know it earlier, we could have maybe done things different rather than trying for 18 months and thinking I dont ovulate.

@Chanti - Which CD do you usually ovulate on? I know alot of people ovulate as early as CD12, but maybe you are right that it will be Friday. EWCM I think usually appears before O, but I am not sure.
Keep on Bding, and have faith hun.

Yes I havent had any more spotting, but I am now wondering if maybe AF is not going to come earlier this cycle. I usually spot around 2 days before AF. But nothing yet. AF is actually only due next week Wednesday so that is still a week.

@ninies - P.S. I am glad we aren't hearing about anymore "shows".. leaning more towards IB!

Morning Ladies!

@Jay-Bee - Good luck for your test

@Hails - Praying for good news hun

@Blou Sonneblom - Welcome and I hope your stay is short! I am also in my fourth cycle of trying except I never used birth control before we started trying... just the traditional methods Dont lose hope, we are still early days. I would advise OPK's and temping as you dont always catch ur ovulation surge with the OPK's and then you think you didn't O, whereas with temping they can back each other up.

@ninies - Have had some EWCM the last two days but today I am only CD12 so not sure if its possible to O so early?? I would expect to O either tomorrow or Friday. How long before O can EWCM appear? We did BD but im scared it wasnt enough if I have O'd already.

@ninies Thank you Trying for baby #1, I am using the Ovia app at the moment, will chart my temperature this month and see what happens. OPK's are very expensive so I do not think I will buy them this month, maybe next month, I will see. I have a doctor's appointment this afternoon for a general checkup

@Blou Sonneblom - Welcome to our forum. Hope you wont stay long and that you get your BFP soon.
OPK's are expensive but they are a good way to confirm O. I used them together with Charting my temps. Do you use any of the apps available, Ovia or Fertility Friend?