Trying for a 2016 baby

Hi ladies, i have no idea why i have not been recieving any notifications via email, i am so lost

@chanti i was due for my period nearly a week ago tested this morning and got a BFN....

if anyone has PCOS please advice me with regards to irregular periods, i was diagnosed at 18 with PCOS but my periods were regular like clockwork, since giving birth my periods are extremely irregular im late by weeks at times, before this month i knew it could not have been pregnancy due to the fact that we were taking precautions, but im beginning to worry.

planning on seeing my gynea soon as we get back from hermanus, but i am getting depressed.

The weirdest part is i have all my period symptoms.

I am so pissed off with my PCOS, it is starting to really depress me, that i fear falling into severe depression after everything this last year has had to offer. Falling pregnant again is what has kept me sane after my loss, but mow i fear it might not happen for me, i have no one to really talk to, my mom in law just tells me not to worry, and with my mom and sister being late, i really have no one to turn to, my own family just want me to be pregnany amd actually lecture me on not being pregnant yet, they refuse to even listen when i try and explain what is happening, i am trying to be positive, but this fear is eating me up.

I am sorry for venting but i need to offload before i breakdown.

Hi Ladies

@mommywannab Thanks soooo much!
@nikita - LOVED YOUR VENT!
@Jillian and Ayesha- any updates?
@Anzel - I am thinking of you - Pls let us know whats happening
@chanti hoping and praying with you!

No period as yet, But also no symptoms whatsoever. I am literally to scared to POAS.
Is that silly? I am dreading the feeling of disappointment that always overcomes me!

Hey ladies,

Did you all have a lovely long weekend?

@mommywannab - Thanks for your words of encouragement, it is always great hearing positive stories.

@Jillian - How are you feeling?

@Nikita - No offence taken! People that have never experienced infertility have absolutely no idea what it is like.

@Sugar - How are you? You must either have AF or a BFP by now????

@Anzel - Still so desperately waiting to hear from you hun.

@ayesha - What's happening on your side? Have you tested yet?

AFM, not much news.... Hoping and praying we reach our target by June so that we can just get this IVF over and done with. It's creating such strain.

Hi everyone,

I have been reading your posts for a while now and everytime I see a new message of someone with a negative my heart aches for u.

I eventually got the courage to comment now.

I just want to say to u all that people will never understand what we are going through with infertility. It's hard on you as a woman and on your marriage. I've been there! We struggled for 3 years with one loss.

What i want to stay is that there is hope no matter what the Dr's say. I got told I would not be able to have kids! Today I am sitting with my baby (4days old) in my arms. I have PCOS and endometriosis with a husband with a very low sperm count! I lost my 1st one due to hormones and I could remember saying to myself it would probably take another 3years but it didn't.

Keep faith, talk to your partners eventhough they don't always understand. It's hard to get pregnant gosh I can remember its not just wham bam positive results, but u can make it fun. The medicated cycle we conceived we had so much fun, not with the bding but with the jokes we made.

During the 3 years and all the meds I got fat, had bad skin, moods, hate and even jealousy amd it was the bad kind. I lost friends and family due to them not getting what it feels like not to be able to fall pregnant. In the end I had depression where I said to the Dr's I might as well just kill myself, the one thing I am supposed to do to be able to have babies I cannot even give to my husband.

Sorry for my sad miserable story but I just wanted to share with you what I have been through and I know people will say that yes u can say this now because u have a baby and the struggle is over and yes it's true I can yes because I have been there.

It's OK to feel the way u feel and it's also OK if u need help if life to conceive dont be afraid or embarrased to talk about itm let the people judge.

Goodluck to you all.

Lots of love

Sorry for the quick message ladies...

@Anzel - how did today go? Is everything alright?

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Hello Ladies,

@Anzel - sorry that it wasn't pregnancy. Sending lots and lots of baby dust your side.

Afm - I just want some advice please ladies. I am currently 3dpo and I've been having some mild abdominal and lower back cramping as if AF is coming but AF isn't due till month end, and I'm still getting mild cramps after BD'ing, and my nipples are so tender and I've been havin watery cm since after O and still do. I really don't understand all these foreign symptoms this cycle. Does anyone maybe have insight on this?

Ps... Sorry if I offended anyone