Trying for a 2017 Baby

@anzel i am so sorry to hear about your loss, u r in ky prayers and hopefully u will get a new BFP soon

Hi ladies

I have been so out of touch with everything....hows everyone keeping? I see the 2017 group is up.....hopefully i can catch up to all ive missed out on

Went on a babymoon at the beginning of the month and just my luck AF payed a visit the day we left .... had an amazing hoiday though and hubby spoilt me rotten.

Afm i ovulated this past week and we didnt leave anything to chance....took full advantage, i have sudden bowts of nausea the past few days and some cramps by my ovaries and i dont know if they are late ovulation cramps or m i having phantom symptoms, i have sensitive boobs and alight bloating, besides the bloating the other symptoms are not the norm for me when i get my period.....hubby urging me to test but im scared its going to be a BFN...How soon can i test? Or should i rather wait till i miss my period rather?

Greetings Ladies,

How have you been? My apologies for being too quiet, I had a lot of pressure at work.

@Anzel, I am so sorry for your loss. your story brought a tear to my eyes
@ Nikita, I am fine thank you.

I had a laparoscopy procedure on Tuesday 24th May. the gynae found some adhesions which he removed and he also did a D&C. I am still recovering from the operation. I have to wait until I heal before we resume TTC again.

To all of us here, God will remember us, one day, in the fullness of time!

@Thanks, Nikita. My doctor also doesn't trust the OPK's. For me it gives an indication, helping us to BD enough in order to improve our chances. We did, however, start to BD on CD 6, 8, 10, and 13 so far. We will continue to BD every second/third day, just to keep our chances up, for in case I ovulate later. If not, then I'll wait it out for AF, and then try again with a new cycle. I actually got a very strong positive OPK the cycle I fell pregnant, so I know that it does sometimes work. So we'll just have to wait and see.... Hormones are terrible - headaches and fatigue is crazy!

@Anzelle - My Cycle after my miscarriage was 53 days long, I don't think that I ovulated at all in December and since then I never have like a 25 day cycle it is either 25/26/27 or 28 days, so I never actually know when AF will arrive. My hormones was also all over the place. I think as long as you have CM you will ovulate, so you might have ovulated sooner or when you expected it. I don't have much faith in those ovulating kits, my friend thought she wasn't ovulating and she fell pregnant, her DH actually took the product back to the shop and told them that the stuff is faulty So just keep notes of everything it will give you a clear indication as to what is happening.

@Nikita - Good to hear from you too! How have you been? My CM has been funny the last week or so. Had some EWCM at the end of last week, therefore my theory that I might have ovulated over the weekend/late last week, the rest of this week was a mix between watery cm and yellowish creamy cm. So I have no cookin clue what's going on. Was your cycle also deurmekaar after your miscarriage?

So I typed a whole essay and then my computer decided that it hates me today

Hi Ladies,

@Anzelle - Good to hear from you. Did you have any CM so far?

@Annabelle - Have you tested again?

@Liza - I am feeling much better thank you. This is like playing the lotto, seriously. Hoping that AF packed her bags on your side.

AFM - CD27 had some light brownish discharge in clear CM this morning when I wiped, so far nothing more. AF might have just said hello and surprise me with her presence later today. I have had no cramps/discomfort or pains that is normal this time of the month. Still have the prescription that the Gynea gave me on my last visit, some very nice painkillers, will see if it is necessary to go and get them if AF arrives.