TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

oh and Sue, Preseed is a lubricant that can be used during TTC as other lubricants can destroy sperm.

Morning everyone!

CD37 no AF. I am so sad my cycle is so irregular. I have read other websites of women saying their cycles were completely haywire for like 6 months

I am feeling a bit nauseas and have mild AF cramps since Friday so was hoping AF would arrive

Went out last night and had PLENTY of cocktails to drown my sorrows and won R700 at the casino

DH has decided to set a deadline for TTC as his company initially said we'd go to Miami in January and DH said we can TTC from the time we arrive there. Now they say we may only go March/April so I said it seems we are always waiting due to his company. So he said January is deadline, we will TTC no matter what.

What annoys me, is that we were suppose to move to Miami in March this year and DH said if we had moved then, I would already be pregnant by now
So we really are holding out just because he wants to travel with irritates me although I do understand his point of view.

DH keeps joking and saying I have no AF because I have a little baby inside. I don't think he'll be laughing so much if there really is!

Good morning!

Hayley, I just read your post again - your appointment seem to have been fantastic! You going to have your BFP VERY SOON!

Lucy, good-luck for today - I will send you a little prayer. You deserve this so much, I wish you all the luck in the world my friend..To get back to what you asked - I did the hpt on the same day as the bloods, but to be honest the + was feint and after the allocated 5 mins so could very well have been an evap line. I will just take it as a - and move on. I really dont think bloods can be wrong at 16dpo and im not going to get my hopes up.

Lali - where you?

Kimika, Im so jealous of your holiday. We have one coming up in Sept and I really cant wait!

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT THE HELL PRESEED IS? Im like the only person on earth that has never heard of it/used it

AFM - DH & I had a lil chat last night so I feel so much better now. Our POA carry on being casual about it(carry on for him, start being casual for me lol) until the end of the year and then bring out the big guns early next year and go on fertility treatment need be. It it happens before next year awesome, if not then Im sure it will happen on Fertility treatment. He is open to try smep, I think purely for the fact that he is a red blooded male lmoa

Sorry for the long post - have a good sunday!

Hi ladies.. our last night.. tomorrow moring back home boohoo! Im not ready to go home and Im def not ready to wear winter clothes again!!

Meags, to be honest, I was def not ready for this baby... in fact I was not ready for the first one either! My hubby was the one to pressure me into both pregnancies I always kept saying Im not ready I want to this or that or this or that.. always an excuse.. But at some point I had to realise that my hubby wants to make this move and I cant keep holding him back. Now I will never look back at having my son at the time I did and I know Ill feel the same about this baby. I think your hubby is like me.. and there really is a lot of people who are like this! They are never ready for the planning part of having kids, but once they are there its just perfect. Im not saying you shouldnt respect his wishes and fall pregnant *accidentally* but at some point he is going to have to realise that you have this uncontrollable desire to have a baby, its not something you can turn off like a tap! Sorry, Im not helping your obsession am I?

Hayley, Firstly sorry to hear about your car! What a pain in the @$$!! Sounds asif you had a great app with the guy! I know very well how accurate they can be by looking into your eye! So very excited about your treatments And Im only going for my first scan on the 23rd, at 8wks. My gynae doesnt really do scans unless there is a reason earlier.

Lucy, yeah its really hard to get ppl to part with their money!! Were in direct selling and I see that a lot! Good luck tomorrow!! Will be thinking of you going for your shot.. Im sure it wont be eina!! xxx

Sue - I am very sorry about the bfn. I am glad you have spoken to your gynae. The only reason I can think of that would make your test - is if it is too early. When did you see the second line on your HPT? Was it long afterwards? Have you POAS again? Very strange!
If your blood sat for so long could that have an effect?

Kimika - Sorry your naps keep getting disturbed. I am also super tired -I was raising money for CANSA today. We organised a "jail and bail". It is hard work getting people to part with their money!!

Hayley - I love long posts!! I am so sorry about DH's car. I hope you do manage to get sorted before monday. What a pain in the butt I am so pleased your homeopath appointment went so well. I am really looking forward to hearing about your bfp. I have been trying to get hold of an accupuncturist in durbs as I am super keen to try that! I am supposed to be getting a number from someone in cape town!

Meags - you can't force DH to be ready and if you are asking him everyday you probably are putting him under more pressure and making him more scared or anti. This is just my opinion. Maybe if you listen to him and do the condom thing for awhile so your cycles can regulate, then perhaps it will give him time to get used to the idea and also so that he can feel he has some control again. This is NB to men. You may find he has a change of heart sooner than you expect. Good luck

Chris - are those 3 miracles showing at all?

Taryn - I may have missed it .... but how did DH react when you told him about bfp?

Well only 1 sleep til my appointment. I'll keep you posted!

Ok so I phone my gynae...He said my lack of AF and presence of Preggy type symptoms might be due to a new cycst (bleh) in which case the glucophage will elimate (lol) it within the next week. He also said that if no AF in the next week, I need to go for a repeat bloodtest as the first one might have been wrong/inconclusive??!!

Anyone heard of this before?

Sue and Ilse, sorry about bfn and AF, thinking of you ladies.

Hayley, sorry about your car man, that is so kak! Hope you guys are able to sort everything out by Monday! And good luck with the meds from the homeopath!

Meags, I dont know what to say dear, I think you need to take some time out forelf, go shopping today or smething and spoil yourself just so you can clear your mind of everything for a while.

Hi everyone else, how are all you lovely ladies doing? Hope yo all have a wonderful day/weekend!