TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Girls, don't get me wrong. I'm very happy for you guys who already have a kiddy or 2. It really is the greatest gift. But, like Strikkie says, it's not nice to see pics of preggy bellies and scans, especially on a TTC thread where you don't expect it. It's a different story if I go onto one of the by-month preggy threads, then I know I stand a chance of seeing those pictures.

I really am genuinely happy for each and every BFP that we get and I hope I get there some day, but I don't want to be reminded of what's not happening to me for I can avoid it at all.

Hope that makes sense...

O ja Ilze congrats with you mom's b-day, you are so lucky to still have her with you. I miss mine alot especially with this bumpy ttc road and there is just no-one else to comfort you the way they do, moms are very very special. and my MIL is sweet but .... just not the same.

Ok now i sound depressed and talking all by myself.

Noooo, i dont think they meant it to be bad. I think all of us are suffering with this ttc road and just sometimes it makes it worse seeing any pics or getting news of bfp its a shock.

Let me tell you something quickly, one of my friends are now 12wks preggies and since i found out it's as if i want to keep my distance because its heartbreaking for me, and i know i'm wrong i should be happy for her, and i am, but it is just soooooo bad seeing her tummy growing every day.
Ok i've admitted that i'm wrong now i have to work on my attitude.

Please girls dont feel bad!!!

Im sorry too,I really didnt want to upset anyone...I will remove my pics

I feel bad for Andy and Ilse after i read their comments and they seemed upset...

Sorry again x x x

No Hayley, i was just joking, please dont feel bad.

If it makes you ladies feel uncomfortable, then it will stop... Sorry, that was not the impression i was sending across..