TTC 2012 Group Year of the ball, Year of the bump

Ilse, that was the word i was looking "nosy", she would phoned me 2x a week to find out if there is any news. he he

O ja something about that lady, she can always change some story to suit her. Her church went to collect some money for food and stuff for her and her dh, and somehow church landed up at one of our clients, he phoned us and ask about this lady and the collection, sh was teeling the church we pay her and her dh about R300 a mth so she cant buy food. I was furious and asked her and her dh about it and told them to their face, they only work for us but unlike their own family we gave them a house to stay in, a vehicle and a much bigger salary. So she said yes but she had to get money because she's got an account at the local "tuisnywerheid" for cakes and stuf that she bought. OMW How stupid can you be to lie to the church?

Now i can smile about it but at that stage ......

Hi everyone!

seems like it is a sad day on here today. my heart really goes out to all of you and i really do wish from the bottom of my heart that you get your BFPs verry soon. I joined the thread and im already pregnant now, while some of you have been on here for wayyy longer, it seems abit unfair. But keep hope, the moment i got my bfp all the tears and bfn´s were all worth it to get here.

the doctors appointment went ok, he didnt do a scan as there wont be anything to see, so i have to go back in 2 weeks for a 6 week scan and then 8 weeks on 20 december which is DH´s bday! he is also not worried about my progesterone and said there is no need for bloods.
DH bought a names book, so i can see that there are still going to be lots of arguments about names!

Lalie, i did, i was so rude, and that was bad because she was one of my employees she'd even asked me that same time what my moms operation wound look like. O gosh that was when i lost it completely.

Thanks Lalie!Glad your parents are also still with you.

Shame Strikkie, I'm so sorry about your mom. One gets weird people without any regards for other's feelings.

My MIL is also a sweety pie, but also very busy and nosy!

LOL @ Lalie - Thanks for your positivity and hugs! You are definitely scoring all the way these past few days!

Strikkie that would also piss me off! It's a bit insensitive to do that - fine give your support and let someone know your there for them but to tell them you'll replace their mother - I would have said something VERY rude to that lady....!

LOL Ilse, @ MIL - only sometimes - she can be very very ...... uhmmmm busy and moan alot and alot of other things, but not too bad.

I was so angry at that stage when my mom died and i've got a lady of about 50 working for me and the weekend after my mom died she said to me she wil take my moms place because now i dont have a mom. I thought WTH is this lady's problem, my mom died 3 days ago and i dont need another mom, she will always be there with even if i cant see her or touch her. That was a very sensitive subject for me and then after while MIL did the same. Just not so "blatant"

See now I'm even annoying myself with my positivity today lol - sorry girls but I scored these past few days so I'm in a good mood

Ilse!!! That's what I wanted to say, I kept forgetting what I wanted to reply to! Congrats on your mom's 60th from me as well. Both of mine passed that mark a few years back but Strikkie is very right - such a blessing!